I'm starting to believe that I can't make this Aneros experience work unless I keep it secret from my partner. That is… it's use. I'm not gonna super-o in front of him. I look like a seizure case. Plus, I want him to try it out, use it right, but he gives up so fast. First it was about piquing his interest, but he doesn't know what to expect. Now it's about my own journey with the device. What disturbs me is that I may be starting to prefer working with Aneros than sex with him.