Picked up a knockoff Aneros SGX at a sex shop yesterday (Put them side by side – identical but much cheaper). I am a smaller statured white guy (5'7" 140lbs) so I thought the SGX would be good as it is supposed to be popular with asian males.
So of course I had to give it a try last night. On insertion it created a massive erection and a pretty high burst of arousal – but the arousal faded in seconds, and the erection faded fairly quickly too. I left in in for maybe half an hour, chilling on the bed, but nothing happened. I clenched and unclenched and felt a little something, but the only significant feelings came with pulling it out a little and letting it slip back in.
So far the story is unexciting but then my wife came in to ask how the "butt plug" was working. I told her it was lame so she suggested we try it while we fuck. Of course I was up for this. Once we got started the Aneros seemed to come into play, I could feel some extra feeling perhaps once the prostate started to get aroused. I was ultra hard and had so much lust and drive like I used to have in our pre-baby days, I totally got lost in the sex but after a bit I didn't really notice any sensation coming particularly from the Aneros itself – just a general boost in intensity.
Anyways the odd thing is despite pounding my wife into exhaustion, I couldn't get off. So she decided to finish me with oral, it felt great and I sort-of came with no ejaculate to her surprise (and disappointment). I was still hard and horny and we were just laying there looking at each other in a bit of sexy confusion, so she took it as a challenge, jumped on it and we got into some pretty intense deep throat/throatfucking action, I came again with no ejaculate though it felt pretty damn good that time.
So my wife decided at this point she was totally played out and I was still rock hard. We had probably been going hard for almost an hour by now. So I just had to finish with my hand and it took quite the death grip effort. It was a massive cum explosion and intense orgasm. I was still rock hard (and feeling fairly ready to go) until I went to clean up and removed the Aneros which was like letting the air out of the balloon, so to speak.
Ok, this was a great experience but talking about it afterward both my wife and I felt it was pretty lame having to finish by jerking off. And she also felt I lasted too long, this was probably the longest I ever lasted in fact. She can't go that long as her body is still recovering from the birth.
So, I thought that using the Aneros, dry orgasms were only supposed to occur without penile stimulation. Does it also work to cause dry orgasms during sex or masturbation? If so, why don't they market it this way as I think everyone would buy it? And since it had such a powerful effect, why was it so ineffective in solo play like it is "supposed to be used?"
tl;dr Penile orgasms with Aneros inserted caused all normal orgasm effects, including the ejaculatory muscle spasms, without any ejaculate or refractory period. Hard to finish, had to use death grip. Maintained erection even after ejaculation. Is this an expected effect?Source: http://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/2tkiex/first_time_use_is_it_working_properly_caused_dry/