Since my last post, I've learned how to reconcile both partnered sex and riding my Aneros. It just involves timing… Aneros weekDAYs, sex weekENDs. Easy. Lately, my sessions are kind of duds, and I'm pretty sure it's because I'm using Rite Aid brand KY jelly. KY is a bit too viscous and once my Aneros locks-in, it won't move enough. I was having mind-blowing experiences with Swiss Navy lube, which isn't any cheaper online as it is from a retail shop. )Worth every pump, though.(