Been using my Aneros since Feb, and so far I've had no luck. Not ready to give up yet but at the very least I want to know if I'm making progress… weird as that sound.
I've read the wiki (seriously there's a wiki for anything huh) more times than I could remember, but… theory and practice is pretty different IMO haha.
I've a lot of questions and no idea where to begin so I'll just write those at the top of my head now.
- Involuntary contraction: I suppose this is the thing that gets the whole motion going, but I haven't been able to do so consistently (if at all). I've tried contracting the external rectal muscle, the PC muscle (the muscle that you use to stop your pee haha), and still nothing. Do I have to contract it consistently, or do it occasionally, sorta like 'teasing' the internal muscle to contract involuntarily? The wiki said to go with small movement, but I can't even feel if I'm doing anything at all. How do I know when the involuntary contraction starts? I've read comments that the toy should be moving in and out on its own?
(NOTE: My knowledge of biology is abysmal at best and the terms I'm using is based on what I read so far so pardon my incorrect usage)
I find that when I get to a relaxed state, I tend to drift off and start falling asleep soon after (I have my sessions at around midnight). Do you guys do anything else, or just… IDK, focus on the toy? I tried watching some… ah, 'stimulants', but that kinda distracted me (I initially thought the involuntary contraction comes from the 'spasm' that my penis makes when it's aroused… guess not)
Lube: How much should I be using? I'm using KY jelly atm (it's soooo hard to find where I am geez), and I go with the mantra of "too much is never enough" but it gets kinda messy. At the same time, I don't want the toy to become dry mid-session, since I'm kinda icky about touching the toy again after I inserted it. Speaking of which,
Pulling it out: Is there a method that can lessen the pain when pulling the toy out? It gets pretty painful when I pull it out (though it's never long lasting). Also, I tend to have fecal matter residue after ending the session. Is that normal? (I clear my bowel at least an hour before starting)
I guess that's it for now. Thanks in advance for the tips!
Planning to go at it again tonight… But prolly will get frustrated and jack off normally as usual 🙁Source: http://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/2wysb0/new_user_here_and_wondering_if_you_guys_can_help/