I’m really turned on by the whole idea. But I’ve never really experimented with prostate play much outside of one finger every now and then.
Would going from like one finger every few months to an aneros be too much of an increase too fast? Would that cause pain? Or are they fairly small? I was looking at the helix syn.
Also, any other tips for a beginner?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/4b5cz0/nsfw_thinking_about_buying_one_but_i_have_very/
Just get one. I was in the same boat but picked one up this week. At first I couldn’t keep it in for very long because it made me feel like I had to poop so for the first session I had it in for maybe 10 minutes. The next day I gave it another try but felt the same way and stopped after 10 minutes. The third time I made sure I had gone to the bathroom and really made sure I was empty and clean. When I put my Helix in I felt like I had to poop again but I had the confidence in knowing I was empty and just focused on my breathing. This “urge to purge” passed and I had a 2 hour session in which I beleive I experienced a super o. I did a lot of reading online (on the forum and here) and decided on the “do nothing approach”. I would just ride out the p waves and think about where inside he Helix was touching.
My advice to you is to be patient and do your research.
I agree get one if u haven’t yet. It may take some time to get used to it. Also keep in mind what your goal is might not happen over night. Takes time and patience.