I was hanging out in the Aneros official chat and getting some tips from people, and one guy suggested that the reason I canāt get my prostate to wake up is because Iām using it a setting so far removed from where the vast majority of my sexual activity has been in the past, which is, yāknow, in front of a computer screen, sitting in a computer chair. 
Nearly all my aneros sessions have been lying down, eyes closed.
I guess the idea is to use your old sexual habits to build a ābridgeā of sorts and arouse the prostate. Once the prostate starts finally making some noise, you burn the bridge and do the kinds of sessions you originally wanted to.
Iām trying to quit porn but I relapsed to give this a go. Iād really like my aneros to do fucking *anything* lol. 
But yeah it didnāt work for me on my first go, which isnāt saying much, since nothing does. Might work for you!
Iāll probably give it one more shot then itās back to the drawing board again.
Thatās it. Just thought Iād post this here incase anyone else is struggling and wants to try a different approach.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/e6ou00/porn_to_wake_up_the_prostate/
Iām in the same boat. I try and lie comfortable and relax but doesnāt seem like too much happens. My last session, I had some playing in the background and it caused some movement. Once it works it self a bit, I try to return focus to the aneros. Lmk how it goes for you.
Yeah. I watch porn while lying down too it helps
You can also try reading erotic stories to get aroused. Whether youāre into porn or not, they can be very stimulating, and a nice change from porn. They donāt overload your senses, and some are very well written. There are a number of sites with free stories online, just search for them.
Sonic Erotica has some great audio files of people masturbating. I think itās a step down from porn in that itās not quite as addictive. Reading erotic stories is a great idea too. āDelta of Venusā, old but classic.
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I have been using Aneros for about 15 years now. I have always used porn during my sessions.
I will add though, that It can overstimulate to the point that your sessions may be too penis focused (since porn is typically associated with traditional masturbation). I do feel it took me longer to get to a deeper connection with prostate pleasure. However, without using porn I would not have continued on the journey and would have given up since I wasnāt making any progress just laying down trying to focus on my breathing and relaxing.
I recommend that you donāt get all āspiritualā and āpure.ā I place my Eupho in my ass, my ass in my bate Chair, and my chair in front of my PC and edge and edge and edge andā¦