Should I totally abstain from ejaculating?

Some background: I just got my first Aneros toy over the weekend (Aneros Helix Trident) and used it twice with minimal results, though my lower body began to shake uncontrollably the first time, so I’m taking that as a good start.

I already have some prior experience with prostate stimulation. I’ve had some really intense pleasure waves just from fingering myself. They were way more intense than regular orgasms, and longer lasting. However my fingering sessions are very hit or miss. Around 70% to 80% of the time nothing happens and I give up after 30-ish minutes. Hence why I decided to get an Aneros.

So as I begin my Aneros journey, my theory is that if I lay off from touching my dick for the foreseeable future and only receive stimulation exclusively from my prostate, it’ll do a better job at “rewiring” me so that my odds go up from my current hit-or-miss situation. That means not jacking off during, after, or even in between sessions on off days– at least for a week or two.

Am I overthinking this? Should I masturbate like usual in between Aneros sessions? I’m currently planning on doing 2-3 times a week as suggested. Thanks for the feedback.



  1. I am trying this right now. I am abstaining from convention jerking and besides sex its been a couple days and I get aroused easier. Gonna see how long I can abstain before my next session.

  2. Sure, try it and let us know how it works. It didn’t work for me, but YMMV. My best results are when I get very aroused by teasing my cock at the beginning of a session, then relying mainly on prostate stim with Aneros thereafter (maybe teasing my cock only occasionally during). Also, 30 minutes may not be long enough for a session, I usually go at least 1 hour, sometimes 2 if it feels good and I have time.

    It took me 6 mo before I got a super-O. I’d tried just about everything, and was also almost ready to give up. I think it mainly just takes time and patience. You also have to be completely relaxed (certain “medications” help, the ones that are now legal in some states/countries). You have to be clean inside (I use an enema). And lots of lube. Since me and my body figured it out about 12 years ago, I get great results most times. Not a Super-O or even HFO every time, but results always superior to a normal penile-only orgasm.

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