A few weeks ago I purchase a helix syn trident. Yet, I didn’t have much luck. I kept on trying 2-3 times a week but I got nowhere. I was totally new to prostate-play and spent hours reading articles and Reddit posts but nothing seemed to help. I started to fill like an idiot for spending $70 dollars to stick something up my ass.
Thankfully, I had my first success last night. I fell asleep with the Aneros and when I woke up two hours later, instead of calling it quits, I decided to try kegels and, within a few minutes, there was a distinct feeling of warmth. I continued kegels and I became rock hard, then waves of warmth covered my torso. I should have continued but I got overeager and gave myself a traditional orgasm. Lesson learned, keep your hands off your cock.
I tried again today and I was unable to recreate that magic. I have read multiple times this is a journey and hopefully, I will eventually achieve a super-o; but if not, at least I don’t feel like a complete idiot for spending $70 dollars to stick something up my ass.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/fjfiqq/finally_some_success/
Good for you. Kegels will really help you progress. They did for me. They will help give you more successes and less dud sessions. Also start to play with your nipples a bit. Mine seem to be wired directly to my prostate. They can turn a dud session into a spectacular session. They’re starting to give me dry Os now. Nice thing about dry Os, you can have them over & over again. And in time they grow in intensity. Get on a good kegel routine. Do them daily. They really help.
I’m in about the same stage as you and I almost feel like giving in to touching your dick/a traditional O is a necessary step in the learning process. Because you can kinda feel the shift in pleasure from one part of your body to the other, highlighting how it’s a different type of arousal.
Also seconding nipple play. I felt a little silly doing it at first, but it’s something that can be rewired as well. And it gives your hand something to do.