Alright, this will probably turn into a longer post but this afternoon I can definitively say I had a Super-O for the first time, and it was 100% worth it!! 😍Probably started playing with the helix syn about a year ago on and off, with most regular use recently due to covid and having a lot of free time on my hands. Spent a lot of time reading people’s experiences and the different methods to try and replicate what works and doesn’t, but now I feel I have enough experience that it’s worth sharing my thoughts.
A. Ymmv. As had been said before everyone is different and will experience it differently. Your journey might be very different from mine and that’s ok. Few key thoughts: goal is to just play and feel around, and stay relaxed. Arousal is in it of itself arousing. It is this low-level arousal that builds into a pgasm and Super-O. Fantasies and porn are great to kick start the process and get aroused but you need to let your body become aroused.
B. To begin to gain experience I used a combination of the do-nothing and kegel/reverse kegel methods. Doing one or the other yield different results and will feel different, at least at first. I would say explore one, explore the other, explore a combination. Do what works best for you. And to tone your muscles stronger voluntary contractions can be helpful but it will be the lighter (and barely fluttering/twitching) contractions that build into orgasms.
In the end for me both prostate orgasms and the super-O alike were really a combination: I get to a point where my aneros is auto-fucking with kegels/reverse kegels and then suddenly my body knows when to “change the pace” and at surface level it feels like it stops auto-fucking but that’s where the fun begins. When it feels like it’s stopped auto-fucking there’s so much more under the surface…I start to feel P-waves of pleasure and swelling in my prostate area. It can feel almost like pressure in that area or an aching prickly feeling like someone is touching the general area or I’m wearing clothes, even though nothing is there. It’s a weird feeling that if you continue to focus on it and let it grow it starts to feel like a blanket of icy hot extreme comfort/horniness, radiating from the prostate but can often feel like your inner thighs, butt, behind your dick or a combination. There really is no wrong answer and I’ve found various times the exact feeling changes and is not always centered around the prostate but it’s most certainly connected to it.
C. Relaxing is obviously key but so is having no expectations. As I started having progressively stronger sessions I would then expect to have them again of same intensity and then that following session wasn’t as good because I wanted it too much. Don’t forget to just enjoy what you are feeling now and accept that what you feel now might differ from the next time, and that’s ok. I started getting more enjoyment and stronger pgasms when I started accepting that each one can feel very different than before but still good. Focus on the subtle differences and how the subtle differences really enrich the experience. Focus on the pressure that’s building around your leg and crotch space. Where is the pressure going/flowing to? Can you move/flex it? Just play with the subtle movements of the body and it will pay off big time in the long run.
D. As has also been said a bunch try not to touch your dick initially if you are looking on the path of the super-O. Other erogenous zones can be helpful, I found it with some light touching to keep arousal high but in the end it did not matter for me as much. Once I started to hit the peak I was practically paralyzed (in a fantastic pleasurable way) and voluntary big movements definitely detracted, at least temporarily. Also should mention interestingly for me my dick has not gotten too hard in any step of the process. Sometimes it gets a little bigger but very rarely have I gone past half-mast.
E. That said I am happy to end a session with a traditional jerk and cum normally with the aneros in. It is way more pleasurable and strong and did not seem to detract from my progress. Still not as good as a pgasm or Super-O but a good way to end the horniness to an extent.
F. Lube or condom or both, didn’t seem to matter for me.
Weed helped me a lot, at least as a catalyst. I have had aneros and aless pgasms and mini-os without weed but it made it ten times easier to get into the right headspace. Didn’t even need a lot of weed, a precision high can be enough. Also trying different strains too. I aimed for something that wasn’t going to increase my anxiety. The goal is to be comfortable and relaxed in your own skin and place.
G. The big major difference to me between a pgasm and a Super-O is that once I started into the super-o space I literally had trouble leaving it. It was so pleasurable everywhere and different muscles were cramping up I didn’t even realize at first, definitely disorienting. A pgasm can provide waves of good warm tingly** feelings up and around your body and it has various peaks but it still doesn’t last as long as a Super-O or as intense such that you can’t come out of it or you are paralyzed.
F. A pgasm still feels great. Once I started to just seek out the lower level pgasms of warmth waves and pressure around my prostate that was what seemed to bring me to the super-O. We all are obviously striving for the super-O but I had to be comfortable and happy with just a pgasm before my body really took off into the super-o space, hopefully that makes sense. It really is about enjoying what you feel now and not having expectations in the short term but a little nudge here and there is ok to get the ball rolling, just not too much.
I’ll leave it at that but will be happy to answer any other questions or if I left anything out. Will try to answer as best as I can. The journey is worth it and I am excited on what lies ahead and the various different feelings that I will feel in future sessions. My sessions are 2hours on average, longer is not necessarily better. All depends on headspace.
Good luck!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/gpfege/my_experience_with_the_supero_and_prostate_orgasms/
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