Hi guys,
I’ve had pretty decent success with a little bit of hand assisted motion. Regardless of the toy, I adjust.
My goal is to have the super O or ejaculate release beyond the series of mini-orgasms. I feel like I’m hitting a wall.
My question is this: When the pressure builds to a crescendo, I feel amazing! And the toy gets stuck and no movement is possible.. or at least slightly. But if I take a deep breath … it slips away. What should I do here?
I also play around with pulling the toy out at the top of the mini-orgasm. That gets me flowing and it is a different pleasure – but doesn’t seem to sustain. I thought it might because my wife gets the same pressure build up as she tries to squeeze my dick out. When it finally gets forced out by the power of her vagina, blam, she’s a squirting/cumming machine.
So it would seem to me that maybe pulling out and the sudden release of pressure is a good tactic?
Sorry! Confused!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/gwv6mk/pull_out_or_keep_it_pushed_in_to_the_max/
Keep breathing, don’t hold your breath, and don’t clench like you’re stopping a pee. Males can do pelvic floor exercises as well and that’s what you should be doing to massage the prostate. It sounds like your hitting the same sensation as an ejaculation crescendo, which you need to train your brain away from.
If they’re legal where you live, you can go to an adult toy store and buy poppers. We’ve used them maybe a dozen or so times, they work great crossing you over the edge and are beneficial to learning the sensation. A single bottle once opened has a shelf life of a couple of months. With that said, they tend to cause nose bleeds for him, and we no longer use them.
If it’s legal for your location, marijuana is also a great help.