Hey guys.
I’ve just got my hands on the MGX Trident (To the best of my knowledge, this is the most beginner friendly model), and I have followed the guides to getting started.
I have reached in with my fingers before, and I know how the prostate is supposed to feel when caressed;
But even after using a generous amount of lube, I slid the Trident in and upon clenching and releasing my pc muscles, I don’t think I feel any tingles?
Another problem I faced is that despite the trident sliding in fine (it slides till the base is at the entrance of my anal cavity, so the position seems right), I’m having a bit of discomfort.
The 2 discomforts:
1. The perineum tab is pressing quite hard on my perineum, to the point I had to stick a cloth plaster to ensure there aren’t any abrasions. Also, the K tab is not in contact with skin (Is this normal?)
2. I was trying to get used to having it up my bum (I’ve never done butt stuff before), despite using lots of lube, my anus feels very sore.
I would either assume that I’m just very tight because I’ve not done it before, or I have the trident in the wrong position(I thought this might be it because my prostate was not really feeling anything & the pain was turning me off)
Sorry for the long post. I’ve been looking around for other posts that have encountered the same issue but to no avail đ
Any help will be greatly appreciated!
Cheers
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/i5beni/some_burning_questions_first_time_user/
Not feeling anything may be related to the soreness and discomfort. If youâre new to anal play, having even a small MGX in there can be discomforting if youâre not ready. 80% of this is mental and if youâre focused on âsomething in your buttâ or discomfort, youâll be too distracted to feel anything.
I suggest a longer prep session. Get your toy, lube, and towel and lay down. But donât use them. Browse some porn. Read some erotic stories. Do some slow relaxation breathing. If you get really horny your Anus will loosen. If you get really relaxed your anus will loosen. So both and youâll be in a very comfortable zone.
After 20-30mins of this, start to play with your anus a bit. Get a drop of lube. Rub your hole. Treat this like sexual foreplay. Get into it. Poke your ass a bit with your fingers. Grab the toy. Push it in a little then back out. Tease your ass.
When you are ready lube up that toy push it in half way and let go. Your ass should suck it in the rest of the way.
This will help with the p tab as well. If you are too tight, youâll have constant pressure, when loosened up, it wonât be pressed hard against you all the time.
Pro tip: I learned how to enjoy anal play from my wife. Like many men I would beg to give her anal. Lube up my cock and try to fuck her. Even went slow. She hated it. Use this same mentality above if you want to give your lady anal. When we changed the formula and added 30mins of anal foreplay (licking, rimming, rubbing, poking), she got to a point where she was asking for cock in her ass. She needed more. Anal sex is now regular at home and her orgasms are huge, but every time itâs at least 30mins of anal foreplay. You have to do the same thing. Youâll get to a point where your ass NEEDS the Aneros.