Almost there … aaand it’s gone.

I am a bit frustrated. User of an Helix once every 1-2 weeks since.. 2 years? All tridents. Note I am quite a thin person (136 lbs) per 5 foot 8. I usually need to do something like 2h of session. My best position seems to be on my back, with a pillow below, On the side i loose track soon.

Here’s what I usually do: I get there, empty out, wait, relax, get aroused and pull the helix syn in. Start breathing deep, after a few minutes, also with my stomach. I tend to feel the pressure as need to pee. After a few minutes when I exhale i can feel something happening, like a bit when you did something wrong as a kid and you got something sinking in your stomach, but pleasurable.

After a while, I would get to a point where it starts feeling quite good very few seconds. Those sensation come and go. Some precum.. Then my dick would get hard and things starts to go south, as i usually don’t get contact with my prostate anymore. I move position and i manage to get it again.

At this point (say, 30 mins in) I usually need to start some contractions (I am trying to Kegel these days) but in general i try the Tug of War technique. Nothing, would change from the above scheme. I can go slow, I can go fast i still get some of those erections, some of those good feelings but then things die out.

Then, I would try to increase frequence of contractions a bit / play with nipples. Interesting but at some point I just…loose everything. I can try with the aneros in different positions, with a finger, with a dildo, basically my prostate gets into a strike. No feelings for me. Nada. Zilch. After a bit of trying more I usually just go with masturbation and that’s it. The funny part is that it takes me like 30 seconds to come and i come so full that my dick doesn’t get the time to be fully erect again…

How do I make progress here? Should I try a more subtle MGX? Or am I being just too impatient?


1 comment

  1. I think you are at a good start, but yes, be more patient. Body wise I’m exactly the same, 5’8 ish, although i would say 1.73 60-65 kg.
    I have been playing for 15+ years with the butt, no confirmed orgasm yet. Plenty of nice feelings though. Last few years some progress with the Aneros, but not consistent sadly, I think my mind is blocking things. There is lots to read here, thats my suggestion.

    Top tips

    -Kegels (I dropped the ball here myself lately, and I think I can notice that already)


    -maybe weed or poppers, weed does clearly activate some things with me

    -Mediation, I really need to pick that up since my mind is not letting things happen I think

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