Howdy!
I can get to a point where I feel a sort of swelling, or even numbness, with the Aneros, primarily when I focus on holding the contraction of my PC muscles (I kinda just let the anus do its own thing–maybe an adjustment here or there if I’m not feeling much). Is this a feeling I should be chasing? The reason I ask is because it isn’t very pleasurable, and I worry that what I’m feeling is simply muscle strain. Perhaps this “burning sensation” will become pleasurable as the rewiring process continues, or I should focus less on the sensation itself and more on arousal amplification? Has anyone else had a similar experience?
Thanks for your thoughts!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/iyp3xy/muscle_tension_or_buildup/
I recently got a Helix trident and have been having a similar experience. Goes in all the way. Feels good on the way in. Then not a whole lot of pleasure. I contract with varying strength and time. Then release and sometimes push. It doesn’t really feel like much. I’ve used a couple positions to no avail.
You’re contracting with too much tension. This is normal though because your muscles are untrained. I first learned to stop this when I had a session with weed. Somehow I was able to contract the relevant muscles when going for the big squeeze, without overly tensing the surrounding area and thus reducing blood flow.
Practice makes perfect.