Hey brothers!
I’ve responded and commented a couple of times to others about how the journey to prostate orgasms and discovery of prostate pleasure in general can seem difficult at the start because we, as men, are not taught about this as we grow up. In those posts i compare it to regular masturbation, an experience that we all pretty much had no problem at all figuring out.
Stick with me here…
We all know what to do with our dicks. We figured out at (most likely) an early age that it feels REALLY good when we touch, tug on, stroke and caress our dicks and when you do that enough you get to the really good bit and cum!
We do this for years and we build up our arsenal of various techniques and know what we need to do to get the job done quick or done slow. We are probably soooo familiar with this that we can mentally recall ALL of the sensations from our various techniques.
Stick with me…
With prostate play and prostate orgasms we are learning how to masturbate a totally new sex organ. For me i think i have just realized that it helps to think of the PWaves generated by kegels like you would think of stroking your dick when jacking off. This seems especially helpful at the start when things are more consciously controlled (until the involuntaries start). For the last few days i have just been working on ALess sessions to hone in on the sensations and i found that i could really amp up my arousal by really, literally, thinking of it as masturbating my prostate with my PC just as i would focus on my helmet and shaft if jacking off.
I think we have all had times when we were a bit bored and just for shits and giggles thought, “why not, i got some time to kill, i might as well just rub one out” even though we weren’t particularly gagging for it. Sure enough, a few minutes of quality time with our dicks in hand and we are ready to go.
A few minutes of focusing mentally on the prostate in this way, by thinking of it as masturbating the prostate, really seemed to help get the juices flowing.
Does this make sense to anyone else? Apologies if this is a bit “captain obvious”.
It has helped me so thought i’d share.
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Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/lm5554/a_mental_trick/
Your analogies are a good way to explain it. However, I would tell new people that this isn’t jacking off. This is a new way to masturbate with different techniques and different sensations. Don’t try to make it like jacking off. Don’t try to match the feelings to the ones in your dick because it won’t feel the same.
I would compare it to getting women to squirt. Your prostate doesn’t start off ready to go. You need to warm up and get it to swell. Then, when you start to feel contractions, you need to remember to breath through them.
Initially began my journey with a Progasm and had some early success getting pwaves pretty consistently and could do it aless.
But after about 6 months I did not progress any further and in fact it got to the point that I wasn’t feeling the Progasm was doing anything and stopped using it.
I have recently started again with no appliance, just kegels, breathing and visualization. I’m beginning to get pwaves again which last 20 to 30 minutes. I truly enjoy that period of time and if I don’t progress further I will still consider it a success.
I do hope, however, that I can eventually experience the Big O and a hands free ejaculation.
This is why I like to recommend the mindgasm.net stuff to newbies and people plateauing. At this point I’m basically a walking billboard, hah. I don’t think you can get through those without becoming at least a little more aware of yourself and the sensations.