Anyone got any specific instructions for feeling pleasure with these things?

I have the Helix Trident and I’m not sure how to get this pleasure everyones talking about. I’ve been trying for a while now and I don’t even feel anything. I’ve even tried the Lelo Hugo (which vibrates) and I haven’t felt anything.

I know it’s all in the “blah blah just feel it your own way, you’ll get there you have to relax” but can someone at least just give me their experience? I’m just looking for some advice or instructions for when it’s actually inside me. Thanks



  1. There is a wiki for all sorts of different questions and there are plenty of experience reports.

    another little hint: the bla bla parts as you refer to is very important, and should not be skipped.

  2. I’ll tell you the things I do.

    1.) Don’t focus on prostate pleasure until you’ve got it warmed up. Watch some, stroke, and edge. I find my prostate doesn’t really feel good until it is swollen. It just feels like pressure otherwise. For example, I can feel my Lelo Hugo pressing against my prostate immediately when I insert it, but it doesn’t instantly feel amazing.

    2.) Strengthen your PC muscles. Try to exercise them 5 days a week, for at least 10 min each time for at least 3 weeks. You’ll be using your PC muscles to position the toy even if it is one the vibrates. You can just insert it and wait. You’ll need to squeeze down on it to adjust the positioning to the sweet spot.

    3.) Finding the sweet spot. What I learned is from so check it out if you haven’t already. What I do is squeeze down pretty hard with both my PC and sphincter muscles and the slowly release my PC until it feels good (easier to tell if you did step 1.)

    From here, it’s just trying different things that work for you. I personally use THC and poppers while listening to erotic hypnosis or while watching SBS porn on a headset that you put your phone in. I also apply aspercream with lidocaine to my penis to dull the sensations it receives.

    Finally here are some “cheats.” Get one of those massaging “guns” and use it on the tabs of and aneros to get it really rocking or on your perineum to stimulate your prostate externally. Be sure you are still squeezing your PC muscles to get different feelings.

    Another toy I just discovered that I like better than my Hugo is this Personally, I’ll put this or my Hugo in to warm up since you can sit on them (aneros need space to move) and play video games while waiting for my edible to kick in.

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