Questioning sexuality

8 comments

1. Wanting to pleasure yourself doesn’t defy your sexuality. It’s the stigma behind butt stuff that makes you think like this. People put “anal” and “gay” together very quickly. But it’s simply not the fact.

2. https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/mofcbu/straight_gay_or_bi_its_really_just_about_pleasure/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

3. Who cares? Just enjoy it. Trying to label every thing you do as this way or that way is completely unnecessary and counterintuitive towards a happy life.

4. I think the answer is more simple than you think. Do you see yourself in a committed relationship with a man or a woman? (Not taking genitals into account).

5. The line between fantasy and reality is blurred. Your sexuality is more open to the new sensations you never thought possible by being submissive to a piece of plastic/silicone.

6. I think it’s important to remember sexuality is a spectrum. There is no real rule book when it comes to sexuality and you will simply like what you like.

   Personally I think most people are some degree of bi whether they realize it or not. Though in most cases they have a specific type of partner they’d want to be in a long term relationship with.

7. Enjoy the pleasure.

   Sex is for pleasure, people use Grinder and Tinder for hook ups because they want the physical pleasure of sex, that doesn’t mean they are commutes to who they meet.

   Explore the pleasure. If you don’t feel you could enjoy sex with another guy but want the anal play, try pegging or get other toys.

   Yes there’s a stigma around anal/prostate play, hell I would love to use my Helix during sex, but a bit afraid it would come out and I’d have to explain it to the wife. Ha

8. Enjoying anal play does not make you gay.

Comments are closed.