So I’ve been into anal stuff for a while, but I don’t think I’ve actually ever gotten a feel for what’s going on down there. A lot of people mention that you should feel with your finger where the prostate is and what it feels like in order to get a better understanding.
So what’s the best way to feel it? Do I squat down or do I lay down? How far in am I sticking my finger? What am I feeling for? Will I know it when I hit it? How hard do I press?
Sorry for all the questions. Thanks!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/mzaqwq/how_do_i_even_find_the_prostate/
I highly suggest getting yourself good and aroused when you try to find it. It swells up and becomes much more sensitive. If you don’t, it won’t feel all pleasurable when you touch it; it will be more of a odd pressure feeling.
The best way to find it is to insert your index finger all the way it (whatever position is most comfortable for you) and curl your finger a bit towards your belly button. Keep releasing and curling your finger while trying different spots. It should be roughly in the middle of your body, but it might be a little to the side or perhaps not as deep as your whole finger.
It is about the shape of a walnut, but I have a hard time feeling it honestly. However, you’ll feel a difference between touching it and not touching it.