So today took two sessions (helix syn trident) to finally make any sort of progress. The second time, I did some light nipple play, which immediately cause a warm tingly sensation down in my pelvis. Despite trying to control the excitement with my breathing, I ended up getting hard and having a HFWO (which felt pretty spectacular, I must say).
The question, though, for me remains… I have no idea how/when/if it will cross over from those sensations leading to a HFWO to those that lead to something dry and more intense…
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/n9bc1f/another_day_another_hfwo/
I read this exact situation from another user here. The solution was to either:
A. Keep going and your prostate will eventually learn to give dry o’s
B. Use lighter contractions throughout the sessions,
as going too hard is what may be leading to the wet orgasms.
Yeah, same boat here! Hoping it will naturally evolve!
OP suffers from PE, based on his post history. This is the possibly the root cause of his issue. He may also be overzealous with Kegels. Too much tension in the pelvic floor area will also trigger HFWO.
I rarely squeeze at all. If I do, I’d say that I try to keep it in the 25-50% range.
When I first started having orgasms with the aneros, I would have one or two dry followed by a wet orgasm. This happened 2 or three times. Not clenching at all allows me to appreciate every sensation more. I kind of let thing build slowly. Sometimes the sensations ebb, sometimes they flow into a dry orgasm. I try to avoid encouraging it by clenching. When I eventually do drop into a dry orgasm, the clenching and spasms will take care of themselves!