I’m not a hard core advocate of semen retention, per se, but I’m learning that there are some fun things about it. Here is my experience.
I’ve always liked a little bit of manual abstinence in order to create bigger payoffs for those times when I do ejaculate. Lately, as I’ve developed an ability to have multiple dry HFOs on a consistent basis with my Aneros, I’ve decided that I don’t want to touch myself to ejaculate anymore. I want it to be a result of either someone making me ejaculate, or a hands free wet orgasm.
At this point, I cannot remember the last time I made myself ejaculate by touching my cock. I ejaculated a couple of times over the past few weeks. The first was a wet HFO at the end of a session. The second was penetrative sex.
The wet HFO felt like the biggest release I’ve ever had. I gushed a river. Usually, a wet orgasm results in about 10 pulses. This felt like at least 20. Each pulse seemed productive but I’m sure a lot of it just felt that way. Regardless, the volume was the highest I ever remember. This was after a few weeks of nothing but dry HFOs.
The orgasm during sex was one of the most satisfying orgasms I’ve ever had. I was so turned on leading into it. My cock was as hard as it could get and stayed that way until I released. Again, when I started to ejaculate, I felt like I had much more than 10 pulses. The volume also felt high, but less than the wet HFO. This was about a week after the wet HFO. So, while there was a little bit of a build up, it wasn’t that significant and I didn’t expect such an amazing orgasm with my partner.
All in all, not ejaculating definitely heightens my libido. And has resulted in phenomenal orgasms when I do finally release.
At this point, I have not had a wet orgasm in about a week and a half. My Aneros sessions have been out of this world and I keep expecting to have wet HFOs at some point, but so far, they have stayed at bay. The wait can be agony, but it’s beautiful, delicious agony!
If you have your own experiences that you’d like to share with me, please tell me about them. I’ve been using my Aneros for about 10 months and I’m always amazed at what’s around the corner on this journey and how much I continue to learn about myself.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/nvzdxi/semen_retention_experiences/
Since learning how to do the super o I’ve stopped masturbating the conventional way. I have always wanted to practice SR but wasn’t disciplined enough. I just have this deep rooted belief that you should only share your semen with someone else. I can’t explain it, it just seems natural to me.
I haven’t cum in two weeks and I honestly feel so great these days. I don’t know how much of it is psychosomatic/placebo, but I feel so much more energized and happy throughout the day. Just this morning I decided to go for a quick run, totally impulsive, didn’t put on a shirt or socks, just pulled on my tennis shoes and ran for like 15 minutes. This is not normal for me!
Having multiple super os a few times a week completely satisfies me and has got me to stop playing with my dick so much. I’m even starting to think about women differently. Instead of just wanting to fuck, I’m asking myself, “is she worth it?”
This was much longer than I intended it to be, but my two cents is: prostate play + semen retention = great combo
I’ve felt the same way. I no longer have any desire to make myself ejaculate and when I do have sex with my wife- things feel so much more intense now. In fact I’m not sure if its because of all the work I’ve been doing down there or what, but recently I’ve been able to keep going even after ejaculating which is normally not something I have an desire to do, but I took a THC gummy or a bit too much maybe the other night which was the first time I was able to keep going and thought that had to be it, but then I committed myself to it the last time and was able to do it again and both times she was able to orgasm twice before just being too tired to keep going really. Its like this new awareness down there maybe. Not sure, but when I did ejaculate It felt like It was going to cause her some internal damage or something the time that I was high. I have this feeling that the longer I go without ejaculating the more pleasurable everything else gets. My wife takes it as a game though and won’t let me not ejaculate a good problem to have, but still…. I’d like to go a bit longer than a day or two.
SR with the right mindset and mentality can be incredibly beneficial. Especially with a supportive partner. But doing it with pure egoic reasonings it can be quite torturous.