I do have successful aneros orgasms and orgasms from playing with the njoy wand but it just ends up making me super horny afterwards and I inevitably end up jerking off to release all that sexual energy.
I started prostate play partly because I dont want to ejaculate from penis orgssm anymore (not as satisfying), but the horniness after a session just makes it difficult to not jerk off.
Any advice on either having a session and end up not being ballsy horny after it?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/osn39r/kinda_frustrated_now/
Damn you’re having orgasms and you’re frustrated? To be fair, I’ve read from multiorgasmic women who say they wonder what it would like to be a man who’s satisfied with just one orgasm. I think that this form of pleasure just means that your sexual energy isn’t spent basically. Maybe we’re secretly blessed we can have it both ways?
That’s something we kinda just have to deal/live with. The options are pretty clear. Either you ejaculate or you don’t. Ultimately the choice is up to you. I can say that much, prolonged accumulation of sexual energy comes with a bookload of effects. There are some I’d personally call useful, but there are also some rather problematic ones too.
To name a few positive effects (for me): incredible energy all throughout the day, increase of mindfulness, it makes my meditation practice a whole lot easier – feeling the energy flow is almost immediately. A deeper understanding and interest in things.
And the downsides are: in combination with working stress it sometimes becomes difficult to not brag about literally anything, love transforms to lust (which is problematic for me) and sometimes i unload my tension valve on someone that does not “deserve” it.
I’d also like to point out that you can use the sexual energy for literally anything, creativity, productivity, research or even workouts to help get your life in balance, which is super important. But that requires some will power to “invest” this energy into something productive.
You kinda have to be in good balance to practice semen retention, or you’ll quickly get slapped across the face by it. The negatives quickly outweigh the positive effects. Also doing it with the right mindset is important in my experience, if you just wanna compare numbers, hold a big “streak” up and get a quick ego-fix I highly suggest staying away from it, after every high, there is a low, and dealing with the low-swing is something that you have to accept and be able to notice it. Nofap and alike is awesome, in theory, but most people practicing it develop a false image, a delusion, and repeat the same loop. Or they become self-proclaimed enlightened beings, that are completely living their delusions. There is no gain by replacing one addiction with another. Both is unhealthy and out of balance.
Sorry i probably wrote way more then i intended.
Learn how to harness that energy. I know thats woo-woo talk but if you have that sacred energy see what comes of it (no pun intended). Report back of course.
I too just can’t seem to get enough once I’ve gotten excited enough. I’ve tried withholding from masturbation, but I could get any work done the next day because I was hyper aware of my prostate and the pleasure I was feeling in it.