Been at it for weeks. Tried different positions. Porn, no porn. Traditional stimulus, no traditional stimulus. Contracting. Do nothing. Soft contractions. Hard contractions. Rapid ones. Slow ones.
You know what I feel after weeks of this? Like I’ve got sonething in my bum. That’s it. The infamous “p tab” doesn’t do anything. There are no “twitches”. It doesn’t feel like its “going in and out on its own”. There are no orgasms of any kind.
Every now and then for like 3 whole seconds I’ll feel like it’s pushing somewhere and im feeling _something_… aaaand then it’s gone and I’m back to just laying there with something in my butt. Literally anything shoved up my ass would create that much sensation because _it’s in my ass_.
I just don’t believe this is real anymore, I think a lot of you are full of bologna and a lot of others are chasing placebos. I’m typing this message while using my aneros because it’s not like it does anything at all to distract me in any way. I could perform surgery with this thing in my body.
Total waste of time and money.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ozzxne/i_dont_believe_this_is_real_anymore/
Ok… give up then..
It took me months to feel anything that was really notable, I never though it was bullshit, but I never really thought it was something that I would be able to achieve.
It took me to really relinquish control and stop chasing any sort of thing that I believed an orgasm was, especially ejaculation. I can understand your frustration, but it really is a matter of mindset. There’s no single path to success, but there are some loose milestones that can help you gauge any progress.
I’ve been learning since I started properly with the Aneros back in February, and have made decent progress. I’m not all the way to the Super-o yet, but I’m damn close.
If you’re at all curious, feel free to check out what I have achieved, maybe it will help in some way: https://aneros.ninja?share=3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,3,2,3,3,2,2,3,1,3,2,2,3,2,1,1,1,3,2,2,3,2,3,3,3,3,2,1,2,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1
How long have you been trying? It’s not (for most men) a quick journey. And thanks but I spent yesterday full of orgasms not bologna…
You got us, its all been a ruse this whole time. There is a group of people online colluding to get people to buy bad dildos, then going around creating forums for people, most of which are actually bots and fake accounts perpetuating the lie that this works
I feel the same way. A dick I can feel. Aneros , I just don’t understand what the big deal is.
try some weed next time, that’s what triggered my breakthrough
*edit, damn sorry this was long af. TLDR – I get pleasure from my prostate and I think I’m onto something with it, so I’ll carry on trying*
Where I’m at with all this – I’ve been trying for a year. Not always continuously, I had a couple of months off at one point and it was very intermittent at the start. At times I’ve logically felt sceptical, but I’ve had glimpses of what this is all about, so I definitely believe there’s something to it, even though I haven’t had any prostate orgasms yet.
From my first try I had interesting/pleasurable sensations. Nothing insanely pleasurable, but what was insane is that I’d lived 30 years and I’ve never been aware of a whole different realm of sexual feelings my body could experience.
My prostate does feel pleasurable now. It’s like a sensual pleasure and it isn’t mind blowingly intense, but I’ve definitely had a couple of sessions where my prostate feels more pleasurable than my penis.
In a more traditional kind of sense, I can see that prostate stim definitely has something to it, because it makes my penis feel much more sensitive. My usual habit was to have a session for 2-4 hours (too much really), then take the toy out to enjoy the increased sensitivity in my penis and have a traditional O that was usually a decent bit nicer than normal. In more recent times, I decided to just whack off with the toy in after a session and the combination of prostate massage and wanking was pretty damn good. I could only imagine it with a partner. The only way I can understand it is basically what they say it is – the nerves running over the prostate are responsible for all the male genitalia, it’s like you’re hacking the backend of it and when I’ve fapped with the toy in, it’s a very complete pleasure that you don’t get from normal fapping. The increased penis sensitivity, the pleasure in the prostate and the penis at the same time… so much better than a regular wank.
Aside from that I’ve had a couple of changes to my regular orgasm since I started p play, I’m not sure why. I’ve started to get more full body involvement when I never used to. Not every time, usually if I’ve edged for a long time. It’s like the orgasm hits all over my body in a pulse and then I ejaculate. This never used to happen before and it’s definitely not placebo.
The traditional orgasms after a p play session can hit really differently too. I’ve had them hit like fuzziness all over my body. I’ve had them feel like they hit my brain. It’s bizarre because that feeling where it hits my brain makes me feel a bit sickly.
I get feelings in my prostate outside of sessions and this is where you might think it’s placebo but sometimes you just have to focus on the feeling and it kind of grows. One reason why I don’t think it is any kind of placebo is that the day after I had a session, I ejaculated normally, not expecting anything different than usual – why would I? But I felt it in that spot, which must be my prostate, the same pleasure as the days after my sessions but much more intense, with this feeling of all the cum being sucked out of the area. In hindsight, I’m pretty sure it was some kind of prostate orgasm. Sadly, it only happened once.
So you can see that in a traditional sense, for me, prostate play has really improved my pleasure overall.
Onto the holy grail though – when it comes to actually prostate orgasms, as I’ve said, I haven’t had any, but my prostate has indeed felt very nice. What convinces me that prostate orgasms are a thing is something I get intermittently. Most sessions I get pleasurable feelings and sensations elsewhere in my body, sometimes I get on the edge of feeling like I’m gonna cum from my cock, but every now and then I have this weird buildup feeling where my heart starts to pump insanely hard. It just almost comes out of nowhere and I’m not expecting anything to happen at the time. Usually it frightens me and then stops, but the last time it happened, I managed to just let it be and the pleasure kept getting better, my heart rate stayed insanely high for about a solid two minutes. It’s bizarre to be honest, it feels like it’s kind of hacking my nervous system or something. I think last time, I was basically tipping into the realm of a prostate orgasm. I started to overthink and interfere at that point though and everything ramped back down unfortunately. It was a very intense experience though and unique, no doubt.
Anyway sorry for the very long post, but you can probably see why – even despite the fact I haven’t had any prostate orgasms – I’m inclined to believe this is real. I get pleasure from my prostate, it greatly increases my traditional pleasure/seems to have given my orgasms a different ‘flavour’ and I’ve also had experiences with the aneros that have really surprised me.
So I’m gonna keep on trying, I feel I’m onto something.