have already experencied handsfree wet orgasms by prostate play, but I’m looking for dry prostate ones..
After reading a lot I decided to do the basics: abstain from cum several days before a session, relax my whole body, forget about my dick, try the do nothing method + some slight pc and anal contractions.. and I had the best session so far! Very pleasurable, horny as*, and after a while I felt things getting very intense to a point where I called a “climax”, when I felt a very subtle contraction centered in the prostate, but that was all.. this repeated for 3 more times (and were getting even more intense), but I couldnt manage to feel a full on orgasm.
Here are my questions:
1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?
2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one. I ask this because I have yet to find dry orgasm videos with regular perineum throbbing..
Thanks a lot!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/pp1w49/dry_prostate_orgasms_help/
>1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?
Generally speaking yes.
>2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one.
It can happen this way and I’ve experienced it. But it’s exceedingly rare at least for me.
It sounds like you’re looking for a dry ejaculatory reflex. Yeah, that’s an oxymoron.
I think what you described is what I used to identify as P-waves. There can be contractions but I never classified things based on contractions and I have no idea how they look on the outside but it definitely doesn’t pump your whole groin area and buthole (otherwise you’d be ejaculating). So these are more restricted and limited than “super-O” and much more common, quite easy to achieve. I don’t think there is any guarantee that it will progress further in the session. Getting further is a different beast. As I understand it, it’s a prolonged pre-orgasmic state, which I don’t associate with contractions – contractions at this point are probably going to get you a HFWO.
As u/rewirethr said, I think you’re experiencing p-waves. Which is great because you’re on the right track!
Now, really zone in on those feelings and *enjoy them for what they are.* The trick to prostate orgasms for a lot of people (myself included) is: **don’t chase the orgasm.** The more you try and catch it, the more elusive it’ll be.
Now, I generally try to stay away from vague, hoakey explanations like *be one with the universe’s spiritual energy* and that kinda shit. But having said that, for me there’s a definite difference in mindset between masturbating with my dick and what gets me to amazing, brain-melting prostate orgasms. They are almost opposite in many respects. Playing with my dick feels dominant, forceful, and requires me to expend energy; playing with my prostate, on the other hand, makes me feel submissive, soft, and as if I’m absorbing energy. Sorry if that sounds a little silly. The take-away is don’t try to *make* the prostate orgasm happen, as if you’re the one in control of it—you can’t, because you’re not. Instead, just enjoy the ride, give yourself and your senses over to it, and *allow it to happen*.
And just keep going! It takes me about 15-25 p-waves before the orgasm hits. Each p-wave lasts about 30-45 seconds for me at first, and there’s a lull in between them of around 15 seconds where the sensations become somewhat distant. As I build up, the waves *and the lulls* increase in duration. The waves right before the orgasm are very intense, and the breaks stretch on. I used to stop at that point, thinking I’d experienced the mythical ~ p r o s t a t e o r g a s m ~. I hadn’t, and once I had the courage and the horniness to push past that point, hoo boy did I learn! It’s cliché to say, “you’ll know it when you feel it,” and that’s not very helpful. So let me put it another way: unless your eyes are rolling, your legs shaking, you’re thrashing uncontrollably and moaning loud enough to make your neighbors blush, and you slip into an altered state of consciousness for an unknown amount of time, **you’re not there yet, so just keep on riding.**
Oh, and sensation drugs can help. THC, in particular kanha, is great imho.