I see a lot of movies with guys having their cock and balls bound, wearing a thong and/or other lingerie while playing with their Aneros or other dildo. I find that watching and dressing up myself is very hot and use this during my own sessions. I feel submissive at that point.
My questions for this group:
1. My cock and balls are bound tight and this is a very pleasant feeling. But doesn’t this counteract my goal of a prostate orgasm, in which touching my cock shifts my focus? and do you guys also have this need?
2. A thong and other lingerie is hot, but also seems unnecessary or maybe excessive to achieve my goal. What do you guys think? Is this normal (trying to figure out my preferences).
Regards, M
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ppxolv/bondage_and_lingerie_to_get_arroused/
Focus is where you focus on, not where you attach the most ropes to.
Wearing lingerie is honestly just exactly that, it’s a piece of cloth on your body. Everything that you have decided to add ontop of that is you drowning in social stigma or your own subjective interpretation of what it could also mean. If you like wearing it, wear it, there is no problem with that. I am honestly a bit confused too, you watch porn with guys, you put things in your butt, but wearing lingerie is excessive to you? Don’t put yourself in a box, live your life to the fullest and don’t limit yourself, your pleasure just to conform a false social construct.