Seriously, please help. I feel like I’m missing something. No matter how much lube I use, my anus really dries out and the toy doesn’t move much it at all. I’ve tried water based, silicone based, and coconut oil. Idk how much the toy is supposed to move but I do know that when I go to take it out it almost hurts to remove it because it has dried up so much. Any advice would be sooo appreciated!