Wait for the “whisper”

A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.

I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”

[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)

“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”

Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen.

I haven’t had an aless, and honestly I don’t need that ability/distraction lol. But it’s basically pretending there is an Aneros there and lightly squeezing and holding. Trying to hold one and not the other. Etc. So my advice to all is, turn it down and listen for the whisper.