First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help.

– I made sure to clean inside of me then put on some lube and next the aneros in (during work from home hours)
– It was not enjoyable and could not really focus on getting pleasure. Sitting on a chair also makes it hurt a bit. I removed it.

– after work (6pm), I made sure to smoke 420 as folks in this thread suggested. I relaxed and laid down while watching tv with wife. It was nice but I wasnt horny.

– 7pm weed started to hit and I realized that I needed to be alone to turn myself on. Went to my room laid down on my back and started contracting my ass muscle: great feeling – when contracting without body movement, it creates a vibration sensation that goes from but hole all the way to inside (behind my penis) – when contracting while moving/pushing down my but against the bed, it felt like penetration. What was surprising is that I could feel different level of penetration (deep, small, wide, thin) based on the strenght of my contraction and the type of movement I performed with my butt. It really felt like I had different size and shape of dildo that I could alternate. I think it’s thanks to the fact that Aneros has 2 little outside arms that sits on both perineum and coccyx – those little arms creates the thrusting/back and forth sensation.

– 8pm I started to grind on the bed (still laid flat on my back) and pleasure started to become more intense as I imagined that I was being penetrated by an actual dick (gf pegging and male friend)… Which bring me to my question:
**** is it normal that as a straight guy I had that thought ? What possible thoughts can go through a straight guy withthat kind of sensation lol. I’m bi keaning straight, so I’ve had experiences with other guys but never anal.
****is this the same feeling someone gets from getting a dick in the ass ? Does it mean that I would enjoy it ?

– 8h30 pm: I dick is super hard and leaking precum as never before. I got close to coming 3 times but it really felt like 3 orgasm without cum. My dick would get rock hard. I had to take a 2 min break between each since I went a bit too strong with mix of contraction and ass movement (guess I pictured a big dick in my butt). It’s like my prostate was asking for a pause to breath lol

– 9pm – I start grinding against the bed and from time to time my ass would shake by itself even when I would pause. Great sensation and at one point I stop to pause but my body wont stop and I start getting such a huge head rush – its like I’m cumming when I haven’f actually came… then Boom! My cock start dripping a big ton of come and the head rush last for about 30 sec. Although the orgasm was amazingly insane, the tipping point of orgasm only lasted a second or 2 max:
**** Did I do something wrong ? Would it be possible for that tipping point to last longer ? I cant imagine how this could be possible.. would make me moan like a real slut.

9h15pm: I came I saw I conquered… removed toy from my ass and went to eat a good meal.

Overall: first time went amazing – mainly because of me doing my homework, reading about others’ experience and advice. However, I’m wondering if this could get more intense and what should I do to achieve this?
*** if you could share your most amazing experience with Aneros, what you did to achieve it: position, movement, context etc…

I can’t wait to try it again. Apparently its best to wait a few days in between sessions.