So, its seems as though when I forget to do my kegels that the aneros isn't nearly as much fun to use.
I recently recalled this missing part of my sessions and started doing them again and tonight they paid off in spades.
It just had my head swimming, me groaning, moaning, whimpering, begging and exclaiming at no one in particular. I'm not sure how but I also managed to avoid a penile orgasm during the session and I'm not regretting it.
So, just take this as a reminder folks, practise those kegels to keep your sessions in tip top shape!