Author: acleavername

First Hands Free Wet Orgasm

Just had my first hands free orgasm tonight and holy shit it was incredible! Easily one of the best orgasms of my life! I was laying there for like a good 10-15 minutes post nut, just trying to gather my thoughts of what just happened. I guess what tripped me out was the fact that I have only used the aneros less than 5 times, and I already achieved a handsfree wet orgasm. So I am by no means a pro at this, but here are a few tips that I follow that helped me achieve this….

1.) Warm up your ass and get yourself in the mood.
(I try and work up to 2 fingers before I slide the toy inside.)

2.) Take a nice hot bath/shower to relax yourself.

3.) Get rid of all expectations. Just go in with the mindset of imma relax and if anything happens, well than that’s a plus. (It’s all about mindset!!!)

4.) BREATHE!!! Make sure you take nice big breaths to help you stay relaxed and focused. (Even during P Waves and Dry Orgasms)

5.) Don’t over do it with the Kegels. This is completely subjective and it works for me, but I personally just let the toy do all the work. I will however, do some light Kegels to get things going but after that, I let the aneros do what it does. Basically, don’t be doing non stop Kegels and wonder why you’re not feeling anything. Let the toy do its thing. Read more »

Overdoing it?

Hey everyone, so last night was the first time I had really tried any real anal play. I had stuck a finger or two up there but as far as toys go, this was the first time.

So I know people say don’t set high expectations coming into your first session, but I feel like I had great success the first go at it and I loved it! I felt what can only be described as a small wave a pleasure throughout my prostate that went all throughout my body. But it felt almost uncompleted, almost as if there was another level of pleasure that my body wanted to reach but just couldn’t quite get there yet. Either way, I felt my ass clenching together and started to grind my hips deep into my bed as if my body wanted more and more. Gotta say it felt great!

Anyways, needless to say I loved it and am anxiously awaiting for another session. It’s been on my mind all day while I was at work and I just want another go at it. But I had a few questions though…. After last night’s first session, I want to have another go at it again tonight, but I’m afraid I don’t want to start overdoing it right out the gate. So my question is, how long apart do you need to typically wait between sessions? Also, how long should each session be? My first session was just under 2 hours, I’m assuming that’s normal but I’m not sure. Like I said, im new to all this and my first experience I say was a great one. Read more »