If I abstain during the working week, my cock gets excitable at times. Sometimes in my trousers, sometimes lying in bed. The friction against fabric can make it hard, and sometimes I don’t shy away from it even though I’m not actively touching it. It’s now Saturday morning, and I want to use aneros but my cock has been hard for a while and I’m not sure if this is optimal, or if I’ve ‘ruined’the session before it’s even happened.
Any thoughts on penis having a life of its own?
Author: aneros92
Frustrated
I feel like I’ve got pretty close to having orgasms (maybe I’ve done it already?), but I’m just not sure I’ve gone as far as I can. I’ve got to the point before where my body is shaking and there’s hot waves/blurry vision/insanely horny/tingling in my arms and legs etc. But I feel like I get in my own way overthinking about what I should be doing at each stage. If I’m progressing through a session and I start to feel like I’m getting there I immediately am conscious of e.g. how often I should contract now, what to do with my hands now, whether my body is relaxed enough and if not where I should focus on relaxing. So much so that it kind of snaps be back out of the rhythm. Too much pressure on reaching the goal? I dunno what to do about it.
I’m getting kind of impatient too, I only play once a week but recently found that after so long I end up kind of thrusting, the slight movement this makes to the aneros on my prostate feels nice but ultimately I end up trying to will the orgasm to happen and end up thrusting my cock into my duvet until I squirt. It’s annoying because I know I’m drifting off the right path but I’m frustrated at not knowing how to get to multiple prostate cumming. Any advice? Does thrusting help or hinder?
Been playing for about 5 months now.
Looking for feedback
Not sure how to ask what I want to ask, so I thought I’d share my experience and see if anyone had any thoughts/advice.
I bought Helix Syn Trident and Progasm together about 4 months ago. Did some reading and started playing and experimenting on my own. I’m used to ass play, so I don’t think I have any fears or inhibitions in that respect. Didn’t really start making any progress towards a prostate orgasm for a few months (found it difficult not to approach sessions like ass play or edging my cock, i.e. I kept ‘trying’ too hard, trying to pound my prostate fast and hard which I thought would get me there, which it didn’t). I’d play with these maybe every couple of weeks.
About a month ago I started to make some progress. I started using coconut oil, lay on my back with a pillow under each buttcheek (space in the centre) so the aneros wasn’t being pushed or affected outside of the control of my own muscles. Legs kinda spread, soles of my feet together. Made sure my flat was hot, no underwear or duvet touching my cock. I only did seassions when I naturally was horny, watched some light porn at first without contracting then moved to dirtier, louder porn and contracted slowly. I found I got involuntary muscle twitches and the start of ‘waves’ when I felt the aneros pressing into the sweet spot and I just held it there as long as possible rather than contract and release.