what your PC muscle actually is.

So, I had fun coaching a newbie.

But I think the thing that isn’t quite explained right is that the PC muscle is the same muscle you try to make your boner dance when you’re hard.
That’s what you want to do, thinking of it pushing DOWN onto the toy. And more is not always better. Sometimes a 35% hard flex is better than a 75% push.

The thing is I was trying to have the toy hit it…

The spincter isn’t really all that important in movement, until the involuntaries come. Try flexing LIGHTLY. That might be what you need to take you to the edge. “

My experience

One thing I’ve noticed with newer guys is they’re always asking “what am I doing wrong”, a better question is “what are you doing right?” It felt good right? That’s a success! You’ll get there, have faith.

The guides are helpful in telling you the basics. But my hunch is I think some guys may be struggling with trying to do things by the books. One day it’ll just click, when it’s not fun anymore put it up for a few days and come back.

Everyone’s body is different, everyone’s progasm sessions should be too. Ride the orgasms in your own way. Whatever gives you pleasure keep doing it, I sometimes just rock my ass back and forth on the bed moving my aneros by the tail, something that just happened in the heat of the moment.

I’ve had hundreds of prostate orgasms over the year and it’s not by following the books. That’s your orgasms – have them, I’ll have my own, and I’m NOT sharing.

I jerk off every time. I also jerk off regularly (multiple times a day). Sometimes I smoke pot. Sometimes I drink Sometimes I watch porn. Sometimes I listen to music. All things people tell you not to do and I still have orgasms all night.

Sometimes my leg shakes, other times it doesn’t. Sometimes I precum, other times I don’t. Sometimes I’m hard, other times I’m not. None of that matters except the prostate orgasms, I wouldn’t get there if I was so focused on these things. Every new day is a new vibe (figuratively and literally – the vice is in)

One-One chat (narrate our sessions)

Hey guys, I’m looking for a guy or two who is sexually uninhibited and wanting to talk about progasms together. We could count down the hours from our 9-5 until we can lube up and let it take control. We could remind each other to do kegels and talk about skills, tips, tricks, struggles, and how horny we are to ride the O’s.

I’d like to play together and/or separately (catch me up on your session and progress). In my mind I see it go down like this: We stick it in at the same time, do a few exercises together to warm up, talk about how we are feeling, and then branch off. If you or I are switching toys or having a lull catch me up on your session. i.e., let me know how many orgasms you’re having, what toy you’re using, and cheer each other on.

Pictures, videos, or audio calls are not mandatory we could work up to that if you’d like. But for now, I like the idea of being anonymous. Let’s face it, prostate play has a lot of stigma surrounding it. So this would be an outlet for me to just enjoy.

I got the Super O four times tonight

So, I’ve been messing around with my aneros for years. I remember laying in my bunk in my freshman dorm, with my toy inside of me as my roommate toss and turned in his sleep. But I got nothing!! I tried over and over and over again for the past 9 years. I pick up the toy when I was feeling adventurous, only to put it back in the drawer for a couple more months. About a year ago I finally gave up.

Until recently, I stumbled upon this subreddit and decided to give it another go. I bought a Program towards the middle of May. That night after work I was so excited I unboxed it and suck it directly in. I think the excitement got me to my first p wave. I am beginning to twitch, and breath heavy. My whole body headed up and I was filled with a how! Then I started moaning (and voice recording – kind of want to post), and the convulsions became involuntary. IT HAD FINALLY HAPPENED!! I just had my first Super O.

I’ve had a few p waves but no Super O’s until tonight. But I started to learn how to control my PC muscles and that was the game changer.

I stuck in my Helix. I instantly started to feel contact. But this time I wasn’t touching my dick. My mind started to wander, but I brought it back to the my sense of touch. My prostate sensations were almost unbearable, it actually felt like it was stinging. But I was determined so I let my my wander to the old spank bank.