Author: cdmtl91

4th session – small progress but not there yet

Last night I decided to go for my 4th session and listen to Mindgasm tutorial as many of you guys suggested.
– I smoke some weed
– Took a nice shower to clean up and relax
– went to bed
– put on my headset and relaxed while putting Aneros in. This time it felt so good that I thought I would finally have THAT session everybody is looking forward to.
– Session lasted approx 2 hours – 2 hours of multiple failed attempts. Ended up touching my penis and cuming with a regular penile orgasm
– On a positive note, I got a better understanding of the 2 muscles and the type of contractions that can help reach our goal

1) Mindgasm tutorial is really helpful and made realized that I was doing it all wrong. I got to learn about the lower an middle muscles

*** I dont know what is 75% of contraction – even my 100% is not clear. Should 100% be really strong to the point it hurt ? How do I measure 25%, 50%, 75% ?
*** it was really hard for me to keep my PC muscle contracted for 30 sec. I felt like at some point it was just my sphincter which was contracted and had to put more strenght to contract PC muscle. Am I doing it wrong ? At every “big squeeze+hold”, my PC muscle would shake while I’m holding it. Read more »

First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help. Read more »