Author: Dissmass1980

Chakras??

So I’ve been thinking a lot more on this ever since I’ve posted the other day. Why so many positive self care changes happening in my life ever since I started focusing on my prostate? Here’s my theory: Chakras.

Hear me out on this…
Could it be possible that chakras are in fact real ? If they are then we are all currently very focused on the ‘root’ chakra. (It’s allegedly located in the ass.)

According to ancient and modern texts the root chakra is the power house/ energy source that is responsible for safety, grounding and stability. They say it is the foundation of your body to flow or vibe.

“As you work to align the root chakra, you will allow energy to flow freely through your body, establishing your connection to the earth and your surroundings. You may feel an increased attachment to yourself and your home as you ground yourself—physically, mentally and emotionally.”

Everything You Need to Know About the Root Chakra

Here’s an even crazier thought. There are 6 more chakras located vertically from head to tailbone.

So what if by participating in anal / prostate play I have inadvertently stimulated a spiritual- physical thing called a chakra and that this chakra happens to deepen and strengthen my attachment to myself? Then as a result of being more connected to myself I notice things that need attention. Read more »

Things I’m learning about myself doing daily sessions that have nothing to do with orgasm.

I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.

Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.

I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.

I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now. Read more »

Is it counter productive to masturbate after doing a session?

I have been having decent sessions but without significant ’release’. If I plan on doing this daily am I better off refraining from masturbating until I achieve a real prostate orgasm?

I have no idea that I can even be disciplined from jerking off but if I can do you think that it would accelerate progress?

What to purchase next after progasm?

I got a progasm and it’s big and full and bold. It’s my first Aneros . I love it. I’d wear it all day if I could. I think though that it probably shouldn’t have been my first toy. I’m a big guy with big features so I thought that the progasm would do the trick. It does the trick in a full stretchy silky warm way.

I am kinda getting stuck and plateau in the midst of its girth. I think I need to learn more about my prostate with a toy that will help me feel other nuances and rhythms that I can’t achieve with a progasm. I think I need something more nimbler and something with a bit more “tickle”, but not too small? Any suggestions?

Some one here was really helpful in a comment about the Maximus. But I’m not sure what the difference would be between progasm and Maximus ?

Can you get an Aneros and it be too small?

Should I take a break or see a Dr ? Or both ?

I have a progasm. I was using it almost every day this past week. I’ve been getting to really good places and practicing keegles daily. I haven’t achieved a full O yet but I’ll get there soon.

In almost every session I end it with a great moment of masturbation then ejaculation. I’ve enjoyed the meditation of it all and the discipline of working through it. Then ending it with some pleasure. I find it really relaxing.

Now in the last 3 days my prostate at times feels kinda sharp or stingy when I’m not using my Aneros. Like it’s cramped up and sore. Then as it feels sore I have an urge to fill it up again with my program. It’s not super painful but noticeable. I hope I’m not overworking it. I’d do this nightly for 3 hours if I could. What’s the proper frequency and duration for this activity?

Im not sure if I’m Fou any of this right but my libido and stamina is amazingly different.

Did I get the right aneros:
nope , too big. I started with the progasm ice

Am I doing keegels correctly?

I’m not sure🤔
I don’t even know how to spell keegels. I just clench and unclench rhythmically for an hour. Last night I did it for two hours. I love it when those muscles down there get fatigued and warm and tight.

Have I gotten a super O?

Nope , not in the first 3 weeks. But it’s like I’m drawing into some other energy source that buzzes through me long after a session or keegel exercise.

Are my erections better?
Rock hard. And lasts longer. I had sex once and didn’t even finish and still really enjoyed it a lot. It’s like I was deriving my pleasure from a deeper source. I was then able to enjoy my wife a lot more.

I think if I have the time and space and privacy that most fathers/ husbands don’t have in my bracket of life that I can achieve a super O. But that’s not even why I like this now. It started off as my main goal but the journey is so much more enriching.

Because my sex drive is fixed, and more controlled than ever before I’m finding different ways to be ensnared by my wife because I can stay at a low – mid level of sexual hunger for a longer period of time. And through that season of ‘hunger’ I get to lust and day dream about my wife’s skin and hair and ….. I can go on about her forever. Read more »

Why do my testicles hurt now?

I’ve been doing this journey for a week now with the progasm . It’s been fun and difficult ( gonna get a smaller one soon) but after a The last two sessions my balls hurt for like half a day . Like a dull pain. It goes away if I ejaculate. Is my prostate exercises engorging my nuts with ejaculate with no other place to go?

What if a newbie starts on the progasm ice?

Is this a bad idea? I bought it and I like it but I’ve seen in videos people moving their helix and smaller stuff around their ass hands free like a ninja.

It all looked so small so I decided on something bigger . Because I have a huge ego I saw “pro” on it and said , ”Pfff, I got this”

Did I make s mistake should I go smaller to learn fundamentals?

I’ve tried it twice already and like it but it seems stuck in there and all I do is squeeze and release around it. I’ve still felt some tingly sensations though…. I dunno