Should there be perceptible movement of the aneros device? Whether it’s rocking back and forth against my prostate or gliding in and out of rectum?
Author: insearchoffun69
Sensations are very much penile-focused
My last two sessions I’ve had great luck but I’ve felt a lot of the sensations mostly towards the head of my penis. Almost like that feeling right before you reach the point of no return in an ejaculatory orgasm. Then I’ll get voluntaries and part of me starts feeling anticipatory deep body feelings leading up to what I think would be a super o but mostly it just feels like I’m about to come as usual and I get this urge to start thrusting into dead air. The feeling will eventually turn into having to pee do I have to stop and relieve myself.
How have you all disengaged your expectations away from traditional ejaculatory orgasm? Is it just something that takes time and practice? I feel involuntaries in my penis and not so much in my rectum. I find it easier to contract my pc muscle first and then my rectum but I’ve read elsewhere it’s better to try and do that reversed. Not sure if that is part of my problem?
Nearly there – non-sexual imagery
Renewed interest in my aneros after many months of it sitting in my closet. I got close this past Monday after reading the quick and dirty method post. I tried again today and got even closer. Liberator pillow under my pelvis, legs up with feet flat on either side. Almost immediately I got involuntaries but that kinda set my expectations high and led to some frustration after I tried repeatedly to visualize something sexual to arouse me. Tried a couple different positions but then ended up back how I started, and focused on feeling rather than imagery. My pelvic area began to convulse involuntarily and then I started imagining something non-sexual: a cup overflowing, fireworks, a balloon being blown up. This seemed to enhance things and let me focus on maintaining my breathing. I then imagined something sexual and that got me closer than I’ve ever been. I could feel I was just on the verge of reaching the point of no return and moments away from full body waves. But then my fucking hip started cramping up and that kind of ruined things for me. Did some stretching then went at it again. Got to that same point but I just couldn’t control my breathing in a way that wasn’t super distracting! I feel this is my biggest hurdle next to my mental focus. It was a good session nonetheless and has encouraged me to keep at it.
What gets you in the mood the most?
Long story short I decided to go off my antidepressants because they were making me feel numb and like a robot. I now have my sex drive back, I actually have feeling in my penis again, and I can get an erection if the wind blows right. I am now eager as all get out to try getting into my aneros again. The impulse to masturbate was so strong earlier that I took it as a sign that tonight could be loads of fun if I could just hold off for a bit. So help me make the most out of tonight and throw some suggestions my way for things that really gets your ass and prostate aroused.
I used to utilize porn to get me in the mood for an aneros session but I’m thinking I’ll steer away from what I usually watch which is bbw, threesome, mother in law type stuff. I’ve tried gay porn before and couldn’t really get into it. Trans porn has been a solid choice lately for regular masturbation but I feel like I’ve seen all there is to see (minus paid sites – if you have suggestions for one, throw em at me!).
I have tried erotica, binaural beats, etc. as well. And dildos, some toys and a hot shower have also been used to some moderate success in the past.
Of the above categories what’s your favorite to get you in the mood, what are some specific examples (favorite porn video, literotica or binaural beats track/playlist)? Nothing is too kinky for me!!
Anyone use TENS units?
Has anybody experimented with a TENS (electrical drum pads) on their perineum? I’m curious what your experience was like and how it impacted your aneros/prostate orgasm journey.
I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…
So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.
I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.
Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.
Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?