Author: LibSocRants

Stuck in a rut :(

Unfortunately I've managed to get myself stuck in a bit of a rut with prostate stimulation.

I've been practicing it a couple of times a week for about 6 weeks now and still haven't reached orgasm from it – every time I feel like I'm getting close I start overthinking it and immediately lose the moment. It still feels good and the silver lining to all the effort I've made has so far been that I can always masturbate and have an orgasm which is way better than 'normal', but I don't last very long once I get the dual stimulation going and I often end up feeling like I've put in loads of work for what ends up being a pretty mediocre orgasm. Then I get grumpy because I'll have to wait a while until I next get horny and I can try again. When I'm not horny, I often just think 'urgh, when will I next get horny' and it frustrates me.

In a nutshell, I think my problem is that I'm hitting all the right spots, I'm just really struggling to lose myself in the moment due to overthinking. How do people get over this issue? It is frustrating me generally because my solo sessions aren't as fun as they should be.

Where I’m at with it… Next steps?

I've been trying out prostate stimulation for a couple of weeks now. I've not had that super-O yet but I'm still really getting into it and enjoying the pleasure – now I don't masturbate without prostate play beforehand. In terms of toys, I've been using the Aneros Helix Syn and the Swoon Release vibrating pleasure wand.

I'm not sure if my Aneros reaches that sweet spot or not. I've found the best way to get stimulation from it is to sit on the edge of my bed and rock back and forward, but it gets a little tiring. I also find I have to pull on the plastic handle at the back to move the toy until I feel like I've hit something significant. Walking about with it is certainly interesting. Even though it's not ergonomically suited like the Aneros is, I think I prefer trying to find the sweet spot manually with my vibrator and trying to do a 'come hither' motion with it.

Sometimes I hit a point where I feel like I really need to pee or that some fluid is going to slowly seep out of my dick (which it sometimes does). And one evening when I did some penile masturbation with prostate assistance after about an hour and a half of prostate play alone, I ended up producing some of the most majestic ropes of cum I've ever seen – it was literally just streaming down my hand continuously for about 15 seconds before I'd even started blasting a ton of it into the air. I've never came like that before, but fucking Christ almighty, that must be a sign. That session was also after 6 days of abstaining, and I noticed I got way more stimulation from pressing on the perineum. Read more »