What has aneros-use ever done for me?

There are obvious things that aneros use, and other techniques, have done for me. For one, I am now a multi-orgasmic man, and could perhaps even claim to have had many super-Os.

Is this what aneros use has done for me? Well it is a small part of it for sure. There seem to be other knock-on implications from the acquisition of the techniques, the rewiring, and from broader philosophical thinking.

The techniques and rewiring have altered the way that I think about sex. Whereas it was formerly more ego-driven and about compelling my body to do what I wanted, and based on a NEED to ejaculate in order to get release, now it is distinctly more relaxed, about recognising the slightest of sensations and about focussing on them, without expectation of where it will lead. The need to ejaculate is no longer a major concern; after all, I get plenty of dry orgasms or stronger now, and I enjoy the STRONG sense of arousal that temporary ejaculatory abstinence brings. This approach doesn't just reside within aneros sessions – it bleeds across into all aspects of sexuality and my life in general. I find that I now have multiple dry orgasms within sex as well, and even such unpromising daily routines such as going to the toilet can initiate more modest orgasms!

What has aneros-use ever done for me?

There are obvious things that aneros use, and other techniques, have done for me. For one, I am now a multi-orgasmic man, and could perhaps even claim to have had many super-Os.

Is this what aneros use has done for me? Well it is a small part of it for sure. There seem to be other knock-on implications from the acquisition of the techniques, the rewiring, and from broader philosophical thinking.

The techniques and rewiring have altered the way that I think about sex. Whereas it was formerly more ego-driven and about compelling my body to do what I wanted, and based on a NEED to ejaculate in order to get release, now it is distinctly more relaxed, about recognising the slightest of sensations and about focussing on them, without expectation of where it will lead. The need to ejaculate is no longer a major concern; after all, I get plenty of dry orgasms or stronger now, and I enjoy the STRONG sense of arousal that temporary ejaculatory abstinence brings. This approach doesn't just reside within aneros sessions – it bleeds across into all aspects of sexuality and my life in general. I find that I now have multiple dry orgasms within sex as well, and even such unpromising daily routines such as going to the toilet can initiate more modest orgasms!

Long time, no aneros

Well it has been a LONG time since I had my last aneros session – several months? I ripped the patellar tendon off my kneecap in February, had an operation to replace it, and promptly developed acute urine retention. Great! Better still was the assumption by the doctors that this was due to an enlarged prostate. I had a feeling it wasn't, BUT I didn't feel like using my aneros, whilst I was having tests to work out what the problem was, plus being catheterised for nearly 3 weeks, meant that I had been "peeing razors" for some time afterwards.

As I suspected, it wasn't my prostate that was the problem – though appreciate from guys on the forum, that this wouldn't necessarily have been the end of my aneros career. It seems to have been a sensitivity to opiate anaesthetics.

Anyhow, in the meantime, I concentrated on my nipple inspired dry orgasms, which have been developing well.

So the other day, after months, I felt like an aneros session, could feel my anus, PC muscles, and prostate vibrating and pulsing in expectation, and thought this was a good sign. I was not wrong!

For more or less the entire time, I had regular and repeated dry orgasms, that grew in intensity and duration as time progressed. There were several periods with an erection – unusual for me – and a feeling that arousal was building from my being aroused – effectively escalating. There was a sense of euphoria that also seemed to be escalating. The only thing that stopped all this, was the demands of normal life.

Session with leg in plaster – aneros-induced healing?

I was working at home yesterday, and getting hassled and stressed, when it hit me – I needed to have an aneros session. I say it hit me, because it did – it was a SUDDEN intense desire, and I knew I had to do it. I was home alone, needed a break from work, and so why not?

Of course, having a leg in plaster after a knee operation makes it a bit difficult to get all the bits one needs for a session together, and also restricts one’s movements and position somewhat. Having worked out how to do it, I lubed the aneros, and shot 2 ml of lube into my arse with the syringe, and started to insert. Straight away there was a tremendous sensation that filled my body with what I can only describe as something like a sudden shot of alcohol – it was as if I became instantly drunk and incredibly relaxed. I moaned in appreciation.

Once the aneros had settled in place, there were some immediate mini-orgasms that came over me like a shiver. Some relaxation, and then the dry orgasms started. The slightly inebriated sensation carried on. The aneros would also very rapidly cause an explosion of sensation all over my body and repeat, causing me to shout out “oh, oh OH!” repeatedly, in the bliss of it all. I decided the shortest frequency of repetition matched my heart rate. The aneros was drawn deep inside me each time. There were tens of these dry orgasms, but even the spaces between were sublime.

Surprise Attack of Spontaneous Dry Orgasms

I didn't get much sleep last night. At 4am, I awoke and had that “I am not going to go back to sleep feeling”. I was lying there, feeling warm under the duvet, and with my hand cupping my balls, when it suddenly occurred to me that THEY felt good – all hairy and firm. I touched my penis too, and could feel the hairs on the lower part of the underside of the shaft. Seconds earlier I had not felt horny, but my steadily expanding penis told otherwise. After a few seconds more, I began to wank slowly, enjoying the feeling of my foreskin slipping back and forth across the glans. I was VERY horny. I stopped wanking, and just savoured the feeling of horniness, and to my utter surprise I started to dry orgasm. I could feel that there was an interaction taking place between my prostate and my PC muscles, building a tension that would suddenly snap into another orgasm. I touched my nipples, fingertips lightly flicking them, and there was another orgasm, then another and so on. With each orgasm, my legs jerked themselves off the bed at the same time as my head neck and upper back. It is like creasing into each dry orgasm. My breathing was fast, and I made LOTS of noise – this was wonderful! Each dry orgasm began to initiate the next, and this continued for another 15 minutes or so. All the time my cock was ultra-hard, but I didn't touch it.

The virtues of temporary ejaculatory abstinence versus quenching the fires of horniness

I have carried on with my temporary ejaculatory abstinence, as propounded by Chia in "The Multi-Orgasmic Man". I am even more aroused than I would otherwise have been, and I have learnt to love that feeling of horniness, instead of being frustrated by it, and then NEEDING to have a short wet orgasm to quench the fires.

I still love my wet orgasms – occasionally – but in between times, I get aneros-less random p-waves, mini-Os and even the odd dry-O, and if I focus on my prostate and think erotic thoughts, these occur almost at will, and are even more intense. The slightest PC muscle contractions bring on these p-waves and Os, and NOW, these have also been joined by anal quivering, that does the same. I also enjoy masturbating to wave after wave of dry Os, and much the same happens in sex. It is like I am discovering my sexuality and my body for the first time – again.

I had a series of intense anal quiverings and PC muscle contractions yesterday, and decided that since I had some time available at last, I would be very self-indulgent, and have an aneros session. My model of choice was the eupho.

I didn't do a lot of prep – the immediacy of my horniness was enough. I lubed up, slowly inserted the eupho, and had an instant very intense dry orgasm, that made me scream out louder than I think I can remember. I liked the initial coldness of the eupho – like an ice cube on a nipple, I suppose?

Anerosless dry orgasms in sex

Had a 3-some with my life-partner this weekend, and was astounded as before that the slightest touch can trigger a dry orgasm in me, and that I can now have tens if not hundreds of these during sex. I have to warn potential new sexual partners in advance, lest they think I am having a fit or something.

The third person was lovely, but perhaps lacked enough experience to make the sex a true "conversation" – a set of 2 interactions (this being a 3-some with my life-partner) that were entirely mutual and reciprocated. As a result, the dry orgasms were fewer than I have previously experienced with my partner, and with a "friend with benefits". I am intrigued now to know what sex would be like with someone who had the same ability to dry orgasm. I wonder if the feedback and reciprocation could start a positive feedback loop that would escalate into new territory for us both? Isn't this the root of Taoist and Tantric principles?

Anerosless Ecstasy and Auto-Thrusting

Had a horny morning yesterday, and thought I should add it to the blog.

Woke up very horny, and began nipple stimulation whilst still half asleep. My nipples had been stimulated already by the duvet cover, and as soon as I touched them, mini-orgasms started. I continued – my penis swelled really hard and jumped as my PC muscles contracted, and in so doing, also massaged my prostate. I could feel my prostate swelling, and remembering to relax and breathe, an intense dry orgasm started and lasted for about 6 seconds. In this time, my abdomen and arse muscles vibrated, and the lower half of my body jumped around – sometimes it is like auto-thrusting (for want of a better description), only much faster than would normally occur in sex for example.

More relaxing, and more deep breathing, and then another dry orgasm, and then another emanating from the decline of the former. On it goes, getting more and more intense – the dry orgasms lasting longer and the gaps between getting shorter. At this point my penis becomes less hard with each dry orgasm, and my foreskin is filled with precum. I begin masturbating to near the point of no return, and sink back each time, into a chain of dry orgasms. I am gasping aloud at each one, my breathe becomes shorter and MUCH faster, and my body begins to feel hot and sweaty. After 40 minutes of almost reaching the point of no return many times, and sinking back into orgasm afterwards, the dry orgasms are very frequent, and each one probably lasts for 10 to 15 seconds. Even in the lulls between, my abdominal and leg muscles vibrate deliciously.

Maybe not so old? Dry orgasms and non-orgasmic ejaculation

A brief introduction. I am a 50 year old gay man, who has been at this for 2 years. No super-Os that I can identify thus far, but plenty of action. Started with the helix, and have added the eupho. I have more recently also added Taoist inspired ejaculatory abstinence, which has moved my experiences on dramatically. As a result I now have regular dry orgasms in sex and whilst masturbating, even without using an aneros, but in return I have to restrict the frequency of ejaculatory orgasms.

This morning, I awoke very horny after just 3 days abstinence. My partner gently stroked my upper back a couple of times, and gave me some nice mini-orgasms there and then. I decided I would get up and work, but I was just so damn horny. I went to the toilet (is there such a thing as too much information?) and had a few more mini-orgasms as I had a pee and more. I cleaned up afterwards, and went back to bed, still half asleep.

Started to get VERY hard, and touched my nipples and seemed to get even harder. I spontaneously began thinking about my aneros and how good it might feel slipping across my prostate, but work beckoned, and I decided to wank instead. It was then that I discovered just how horny I really was. I was like a thing possessed. I wanked myself to the edge several times, and had some really strong dry orgasms as I relaxed back into them from just before the point of no return. The precum was flowing, and I fingered my foreskin, and gave myself some more dry orgasms. [I just had a dry orgasm while typing, thinking about how intense they had been].