You’ll read a lot of guides here aimed at mid-tier experienced users and most of them will gloss over a big step nonchalantly like “step 2. feel pleasure from your prostate, step 3. follow that pleasure like a ray of sunshine, across the rainbow, down to the pot of gold” etc.
But I remember the start of my aneros journey, and no matter what I tried I just couldn’t figure out how to feel pleasure by having this thing in.
Well, here’s my suggestion to any beginners at this stage of the process.
Guide:
1. Jack off once a day for 7 days with the aneros in
2. After the first week, do your next 7 days (however many sessions you want, you don’t have to do all 7 days for this part) WITHOUT touching your dick while having the aneros in, and no orgasm at the end (important, don’t cum!)
3. Repeat steps 1&2 in bi-weekly cycles until you start to feel your prostate awaken with warmth and good feelings.
If you’re like most guys, until you discover prostate play, you’ll have gone your whole life directly linking “rubbing your penis = pleasure”. The male body has many other ways to feel pleasure, the prostate is one of them. But the simple fact is you’re not going to undo and redefine years and years of muscle and mental memory of pleasure=penis in one or two sessions. You have to train your body and mind to recognize that prostate=pleasure. And this guide above will kickstart that process.