Author: Puck

My first Super 'O'

Well if that wasn't it, then I don't really care what is. After about 6 months of trying I think I've managed it, because that was JUST brilliant.

I gave myself all day, had a shower, watched some porn: the usuals. The first couple of hours were pleasurable enough, but I wasn't breaking any new ground so I had a break.

I then re-lubed and set off again. Soon I felt it really moving inside me, and I forced myself to do something quite difficult – let go. I've often seen people on this forum mention this, and I think it's a little misleading, because to get to the point where you need to 'let go' requires some subtle control, as I've written about before. But once you feel you're in the zone, the 'subtle control' goes out the window. I forced myself to just go limp. It went bezerk. I could feel it thrusting of its own volition inside me, and this time, maybe because of the previous work I'd done, I found it hitting the spot every time – you know – THAT spot. I started breathing quickly, and groaning, and it would come in sort of spasms, rising and falling, grinding against my prostate. Every stroke was bliss. This went on for a couple of minutes. Then I let it subside and just lay there, feeling my prostate glowing. I'm still a little shivery from the feeling – I know what people mean when they say they feel 'energized' after it. I just feel so good!

Some Progress

The Aneros is amazing. Every session gives sensations and experiences which are different from the last. This was a particularly long session for me, largely because after about two hours, something seriously important happened which made me want to go on for a lot longer.

My last session was frustrating, so I started this one slowly and with low expectations. My preferred position is becoming one in which I kneel on the bed with my head on the mattress and some pillows between my knees and my torso. The fact that this is comfortable for me is important, as I realized last night. This is because when you're starting out, you need to be able to think to yourself – "this is quite nice, I could carry on like this for hours". I don't think, therefore, that uncomfortable positions or tiring positions or exercizes are good ideas – you need to prepare yourself for potential longevity.

So, I spent quite a while just enjoying some gentle, delicate contractions. Then the usual experiements ensued – letting them get harder, deeper, trying to 'let go'. And, as usual, they didn't do much. So I redisciplined myself and went back to low level. Read more »

Miscellaneous Points

Dear all,

I thought I'd write a few thoughts down, having had an enjoyable session last night which, nonetheless, did not produce the Super 'O'. I'd like to think I'm a kind of intermediate at this now. Things are happening and I'm gradually mastering control of some of them, but I still haven't reached that orgasm yet, and every session seems to yield a new sensation which I have to familiarize myself with and try and understand. I won't bore you with talk of positions or lube – I just have a few points which might encourage those of you who are really struggling, or yield some advice from those of you who are really gunning.

1. The Prostate

To put it bluntly, it's a tricky little blighter! Suddenly I find that the Aneros has got it right there, and I'm like "ooooooh that's so good", but then it feels as if the Aneros has gone past, beyond the spot, or the spot has moved away. Another thing that happens is that there can be a strong, random contraction from my penis (or something related to it) which dislodges things somehow. I'm guessing that managing to maintain this sort of contact is one of the keys. Would any of the guru's amongst you agree with that?

2. Contractions – which ones? Read more »