Intense sensation and build up, but not orgasm?

Today I decided to have a relaxing time. I had always tried to chase prostate orgasm, which never succeeded.

But today I think I got to a point I had never been before. I relaxed with some music, while the toy kept pressing the spot perfectly. The only thing I did was squeezing pc muscles tight. Then suddenly my heart ran fast and the anus area got warm. It felt like climbing up the sensation, but didn’t release with an orgasm. Eventually, I had to pee, and gave up. This whole process took about an hour.

I squeezed the pc muscles without releasing, and it was by this move that I think I got to that intense sensation. Is this a right approach?

Prostate stimulation and ejaculation

A little bit of background: I have been doing prostate play for about 3 years, mostly with toys and my wife’s fingering. However, I never experienced prostate orgasm that does not invove ejaculation. In other words, I always have had to stimulate penis to be able to cum.

So I was using my toy for solo play today. Instead of just relaxing and flexing, I actively put pressure on the prostate by grinding the head of the toy on it. I’m familiar with the location and feeling of my prostate, so it wasn’t hard to hit the right spot. After about 2 minutes have passed, I started to notice that there was a drop of cum on my penis. However, it was not typical pre-cum that would cone out; it felt as if the pressure on the prostate was “squeezing” sperm out of the prostate, and soon after a heavy drop of sperm actually fell on the ground (I was standing). Although it did not involve an orgasm, I was wondering if it would lead to a typical wet ejaculation orgasm.

My question is that is this how some men ejaculate through prostate play? I have seen men ejaculate only with prostate stimulation, both with and without “p-spot orgasm.” Can this possibly contribute to the conventional p-spot orgasm?