I decided to purchase my first aneros and the majority of users suggested the helix model.
I also saw some people recommending the syn and others the plastic one: I would like to know the main difference feeling-wise so that I can make a better choice
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Looking for a few ideas for a meditation/self pleasure retreat
Hi there. I’m a first time poster here but have been following the community for some time (I’ve probably got another post or two coming in short order with different questions) but this is my first time reaching out.
I’ve been having good luck exploring all these new sensations and in particular found good results mixing aneros play with my mindfulness practice and some gentle yoga etc. I have some extended alone time coming up and am looking to do at least one day-long yoga/mediation/play “retreat.” I have some ideas for this, but am wondering about whether any of you have done one of these and have ideas about how to structure the flow of that throughout the day, even as specific as what order you think these practices are best mixed, what length of breaks and how often to work them in, ideally for food/bathroom breaks as well. For extended play how often do you take out or swap the aneros to keep the sensations fresh, etc?
If any of you have done something like this before, I’m all ears when it comes to advice you had about what worked and what didn’t, and anything I might overlook.
Thanks for all the positive support here, it’s great to see.
What’s your technique?
I’m a straight man trying to have pgasm for a number of years on and off and all in secret when I get a free spare hours on my own.
I’ve got a small slim dildo
A longer but still not too girthy dildo
A thick long girthy dildo
A prostate massager
Anal beads
And a few other.
I’ve been putting plenty of lube on and trying to relax and whilst I feel like I may have got close in the past I’ve never actually orgasmed from it.
I’ve had a lot of pre cum leaking which I’m guessing it where the milking phrase comes from but no physical pgasm and I’m jealous of everybody else..
I know I have a good few hours tomorrow so wanted to know your Techniques.. ive seen some people so don’t get yourself all horny (which I have been doing) and just relax .. and other day making sure your horny first so your prostate is swelled..
Any help would be appreciated
First Super-O…my god…
Been using the trident syn for a few months now with mixed results. Until last night had better success and achieved multiple prostate O’s Aless, but I knew there was more to be unlocked with the toy…boy, was I right…
I started Aless with no real intention of inserting the toy (I think this “lack of expectation” that everyone talks about is key). I had a few drinks earlier in the night and smoked some weed. The Aless was going pretty well, but nothing mindblowing, so I decided to take a ride.
Fingered myself with some lube and the toy seemed to slide in alot easier than usual. It wasn’t a crazy active session from the start. On my back, feeling most of what I usually do…some good vibes, things building, trying my best to stay relaxed and not “scare” the feelings away. This went on for an hour or so and I figured I was on my way to another decent but not great session. I decided to change positions and lay on my side on the couch….
The next part is when things got interesting and my mind was blown…let me start by saying there’s alot of talk on these forums about labeling feelings and how to tell a wave, from an O, from a super-O and how to tell where you are in the journey…when you reach the super, you will know…there is no mistaking what my body went through…
Is this even related? so basically When I normally masturbate I edge and when I’m close I get this like chills feeling and if I focus on it I can make it more
so basically When I normally masturbate I edge and when I’m close I get this like chills feeling that if I focus on it gets more
I know this is for using aneros but i saw somewhere you can also edge close as u can and then feel the energy or something so that was what I was doing
However after doing it a few times it vanishes
How can I make this feeling turn into intense?
From what I’m guessing this is sexual energy OR it is the orgasm. Because from reading basically these ain’t normal orgasms it says that the pleasure grows up gradually it don’t just spike up and then down
So maybe it is the pleasure wave? But how can I make it as intense as people are saying
Apparently it’s body intense. Which yeah I feel it throghh my whole upper body but I wouldn’t say it’s like pleasure. When I get it It’s literally like when you get the goosebumps chills or something feels like that
Major progress and first taste of prostate orgasm
I’ve been practicing prostate play on and off for about 9 months now and last night I had a breakthrough session. I’m gonna give a shout out to everyone who helped me get this far too.
Usually I edge first for quite a while before I put my toy in, but I feel like that was maybe a crutch to help me identify the pleasure in the start and now I can have a session without it. I had this breakthrough without edging, so I think that’s probably important.
So as strange as it may sound, recently I noticed the feeling of what I call a ‘prostate boner’ haha. When I allow my body to clench lightly, it can feel like my prostate is getting hard for a few seconds, like a little wave of pleasure. I’ve usually either been relaxing entirely after that occurs, or tensing too hard and killing it. I followed my body and allowed myself to tense lightly if it wanted to. Then I would relax a little and then follow my body again to clench lightly.
Often this ‘prostate boner’ (or another pleasure wave in the past, I used to get a more general feeling of pleasure in the pelvis) would cause my heart to suddenly beat really hard and fast and this would be so intense that it would scare me and cause everything to end. This has been coined as ‘terror at the gates’.
Are they magical?
From someone who has not experienced a full blown super-o, can someone explain just how good they feel? I have been practicing prostate play with an aneros for around 2 years. It seems like I have been getting extremely close.
I can feel it start to happen when I feel a deep sensation in my prostate. I start to feel it electrify within my pelvic region. That usually happens for around 5 minutes. Then I feel myself in a trance with my heartbeat and my aneros. That lasts for a few minutes. Then my heart starts to beat faster and faster and faster. Then I feel an incredibly intense sensation in my prostate and I feel it running all throughout my body. But I can tell it’s not an orgasm.
I cant seem to bring my self to the edge and feel the unimaginable ecstasy radiate through my soul. Towards the end of what is probably a “p-wave” I start to “cheat” and move the aneros with my hand. It works for a few minutes but I end up losing the sensation. At the end of every session I jerk off and have a penile orgasm. On an occasion the orgasms feel better than a penile. But they usually feel like a regular orgasm, only just a little bit better.
Does anyone else have this problem? Can some explain what the super-o feels like? What should I do to help myself go over the edge? (And yes I do smoke weed).
Bucking Like a Bronco..
Not quite, but it feels like it… I’ve recently reached the ability to have some pretty crazy involuntaries that feel great, but I’m not sure if I’ve had any milestone orgasms.
I know it’s different for everyone, but are the dry O and super O something you know when it happens? Any tips for reaching the next level or just continue with the flow that’s giving me the involuntaries.
I wish had more time.
I didn’t have a lot of time I know need to relax more, but I was so horny and had a free 2hrs before, I knew anyone would be home. I had time to prep a bit and inserted Aneros with in minutes I was leaking watery cloudy pre cum. I know I can’t help but to taste. Then I got into my groove feeling it build maybe 10 minutes my first small dry P-wave then hit me with a bigger one felt deeper than orgasm and thicker pre cum than before. I didn’t realise I moaned out a little loud. I had to carry on I need more another slow build I had to grip the covers. I wanted to moan out and as a lot of per cum leaked out it was so tasty. I then a big one that didn’t want to end felt like could of ridden it till passed out. I had to stop as worried about the time. As I removed Aneros my legs where shaking I am left more horny than before.
The feels: Prostate vs anal
How would you describe the sensation of pleasure from the anal canal vs the prostate? I’m having a lot of fun with the aneros and even some aless but I’m pretty sure my prostate is dead (quiet). Thanks for your insight!