The search function is escaping me, but I feel like I saw something about mixing coconut oil and silicone lube? Has anyone tried this, and how did you mix the two? My coconut is solid at storage temperatures. Does mixing make it a liquid at room temperature?
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Do your balls pull up before your HFO?
Trying to see if there are any other patterns when it comes to approaching an O, be that a mini or super.
Does prostate milking help with the rewiring process?
Basically title.
I have not been able to orgasm using my Helix Syn yet. However I sometimes have short involuntaries and am generally able to controll all the muscles on their own. I just think my rewiring process is not completed yet, as I am not too far along the journey, timewise.
However I own some other toys and today I have been able to, for the first time, milk my prostate and get some cum out of it. Not much, maybe a teaspoon full but still. Does prostate milking help with the rewiring process?
My rationale would be that getting the prostate “accustomed” to touch would make it more sensitive.
Anyone have experience with this?
P-tab cup
Several years ago I remember coming across this rubber cup online that you could put over the P-tab on a massager. Many guys had said it too an edge off the pressure on their perineum while added extra sensation & pleasure. Feels like something one should find easily on Etsy, but no luck.
I ask this b/c I’m finding my MGX’s p-tab to be uncomfortable after a bit, and need something to either stick less or spread the sensation out over a larger area. Either way, I appreciate any help in finding this. FYI, it’s could also be construed as a bit of a toy, being a 1/2 hollow-sphere/ball that when turned inside out would do this weird pop & flip thing.
Again and again..
There I stood with my knees shaking and my cock drained still in my grips. saying “Wow, what just happened?” I am thinking there will be many new adventures to follow. Can’t wait to try it during intercourse. I love this thing! You guys that haven’t tried prostate massage because you think it’s about a gay thing are definitely missing out on a brand new world!
Contraction questions and issues
About a month ago I started incorporating contractions as opposed to just sitting there and being still, however I don’t really know what I’m doing.
I don’t know the difference between my sphincter muscles, an anal contraction, or a rectal contraction. The ‘getting started’ page doesn’t illustrate what they are or how to physically recognize them, (neither did google) so as far as I know I have only been doing one of those and I don’t even know which one. Last night I payed extra attention to what I was feeling. I thought I had managed to contract two different muscle groups but I later realized I was doing the same group but at different strengths and starting the contraction in different places.
The contraction I know is flex the muscles you would use to stop peeing mid-stream. If someone could explain how to recognize/contract the right muscle groups or point me towards another information page, I would be very grateful.
What do you mean by “involuntaries”
I have seen “involuntaries” being talked about and I think there are two different things that people are referring to. I am not sure which is the actual meaning. Is it when the aneros moves involuntarily inside you? Or is it when your legs move involuntarily and body moves almost like a seizure? I have seen videos of the latter but never experienced it myself. Whereas I have had the auto-fuck with the aneros.
Not feeling anything
It’s been almost 1 year since I have my Aneros helix syn and many many sessions with it. In all of them I tried numerous approaches with all kind of different positions and methods. Yesterday I wanted to try it one last time in 2020, with some guided audio experience. I think it was called „super O slut“. It was one of the longest session ever (almost 2h) and I would say I was in a pretty relaxed stance/trance kind of mood. Basically the perfect condition to feel at least something (as far as I‘ve read). Unfortunately the same fate met me this time as always.
I felt absolutely no pleasurable sensations whatsoever.
Since the beginning of my journey, I never felt discomfort or anything similar which would tank the experience. After a while I get used to the aneros and then nothing really happens apart from very little leaking in the first 10-20min. Many times I fell asleep during my sessions and woke up hours later without any special feeling. Just like a normal nap, only this time with something up my butt. Masturbating with the aneros inside feels not much different than normal.
Is it possible that I am just not fit for this whole prostrate stimulation thing? Before buying the helix syn, I’ve read that it’s the model „that fits all“. I’ve tried a lot of different things, all kind of approaches as listed in the aneros wiki but sadly without any sensations.
Hopefully you guys can enlighten me. Cheers
Short trip to Peridise
I’ve been getting back into Aneros recently. I’ve used my smallest Peridise a few times this month with little success. This evening I decided to relax with it in while watching some youtube and it was *amazing.* It started moving on it’s own right away and it was so pleasurable. Everything in my pelvic region started to feel really good, especially my sphincter and anal canal. My prostate was involved, but only tangentially. It really made me appreciate that all the muscles and nerves down there have their own role to play with us feeling good, not just the prostate.
What I liked in particular was how light the contractions were. It felt way different from an intentional contraction, as if I couldn’t tense those particular muscles like that on my own.
Overall it made me feel happy.
Can you have a dry orgasm within the refractory period?
Title says it all. I haven’t found an answer to this question anywhere on the internet so I’m asking it here.