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After 5+ years of trying, is it time to stop?

Hello all,

As the title suggests I’ve been doing this for a long time. The only success I had is using penile masturbation to get me close and using toys to finish it off, this is all good but it doesn’t feel better than a traditional boring orgasm.

Honestly reading what everyone here is achieving in a matter of months and even days is driving me insane. I’ve been having hour long sessions with my Aneros. But also with other toys I own and the best I can do is leak a few drops of precum.

Sometimes I abstain from jacking off for a week while toying but my mood swings get so insane that I had to seek therapy to deal with it and eventually I give up and just jack off feeling guilty and the cycle starts all over again.

I’ve been reading the malegspot wiki so much that I can rewrite it with my eyes closed. Is it time to give up on this, and hope I can ever come to terms with that I’ll never achieve explosive pleasure like everyone else has?

Do you transmute?

Do you use, or transmute this “primal” sexual energy that the aneros generates within your body? If so, into what?

Do you always use this energy in a sexual way? Are there any specific contexts in your life that benefit or suffer from the aneros being part of your life?

Any unexpected (positive?) impact on your social life, or ability to attract a mate?

Does the word “spiritual” come to mind when you reflect on your use of the aneros?

Has it had any influence on the path you have chosen in life?

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Based on my experience as an aneros user, on and off since 2010 is that if the built-up sexual energy from a session is not released, it stagnates. I have yet to learn a skillful way to work with this energy.

I say this because my personal “rewiring” journey has been difficult. Since about 2016 I’ve experienced chronic myofascial pain syndrome primarily in the region of my right rhomboid major (i’m right handed, and primarily use my right for masturbation). Also during this time, my right shoulder has given out on me 3 times during workouts, which I’ve just completed 2 years of physical therapy to address.

It wasn’t until 2018 that I found that I had these things in my myscles called trigger points and that they could actually release when pressure was applied to them (it’s an odd “unfolding” sensation). Over these past 2 years I’ve accumulated 3 foam rollers, 2 massage canes, 1 trigger point release ball, and have managed to release most of my trigger points. Read more »

Questions about the Vice 2

I’ve been very curious for some time about the Vice 2.

I’ve tinkered with my helix for a while, and have experienced ecstatic waves, maybe it was a super-o? I remember just feeling extremely euphoric and unable to not vocalize how amazing everything was.

I have this vibrating bullet of sorts that I was able to sort of wedge between the base and the p-tab, and it sent amazing waves of pleasure, although it was inconvenient and would slip out.

So! I was curious, is it worth buying the Vice 2? I haven’t found too many reviews on it, but the ones I have said it was a great product, but is it worth the $150?

Sensations in the belly area

I’ve noticed from a lot of other people’s posts that they mention that they normally experience sensations building up in their prostates when experiencing super-o orgasms. When I have these orgasms I experience sensations in my belly in the area between my belly button and pubic area. For me the sensations tend to build up in that area and when I orgasm the orgasmic waves emanate from that region, across my entire body. The same happens during aless sessions. Does anyone else experience the same?

Wild session

I just had a session and I was focusing on breathing through my nose. Within ten minutes I felt my body shake and tremble. I didn’t feel much sensation in my prostate but I did feel super aroused. Am I on the right track?

Wait for the “whisper”

A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.

I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”

[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)

“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”

Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen. Read more »

First time use advice welcomed

My helix syn came in yesterday. Used it, prior to buying I did plenty of research on it and just the overall pspot in general. I know the difference in contractions and I thought my pc muscle (if that’s the correct term) was fairly strong and I can Differentiate between the two.

So most folks said put in and chill for a few I am pretty relaxed normally as well so that’s Done. So let’s see what’s on the hub….

I started to do pc contractions nothing. Like Yo what? It took me a few to do it having something interfere with it (helix) but I got it. I went light and increased then backed off. Did this for a while eh okay imma amp it up.

So I squeezed hard and held it and began to feel a warmth around my pelvic region and found myself not breathing. And having to stop (take a breath) as said sensation traveled up to my tip. I did that for a while longer and only thing that came of it was a ton of pre cum. Eventually I just finished normally. I guess at times I involuntarily moved my legs around finding positions that I didn’t have to squeeze as much. I’m not gonna give up I did read someone said tug of war I couldn’t find the post on the forum to experiment with this. Oh by the end I could feel My pc muscle fatigued have others experienced this? My overall first experience was decent? Didn’t leave me with the feeling of a bust but more so with oh hey something is here.

Learning to do good contractions

I recently got the Helix Trident Syn. I’m trying to do the contractions by putting it in and squeezing rhythmically, but it isn’t that stimulating and I’m not noticing the twitching response people describe. I like having it in and can get some good pleasure from grinding my ass against the bed with the toy inside, but since the Super O is a muscle thing I feel like maybe my muscles are just weak and I am cheating by grinding. I definitely notice that I am having stronger penile orgasms when I have been squirming around with the Aneros for a while, and today I found myself craving the perineum stimulation while touching my cock so I put it in and had a good wet orgasm. It’s nothing like what people describe with the dry orgasm from contractions though. Anyone have advice on how to have good contractions?

Is aneros a game changer over njoy and others?

I have used the njoy wand for awhile. It feels great, but I have never achieved the p spot orgasm (from that or anything else). I’ve been using it for well over a year. Are the aneros products that much better, and will that be the difference maker? I look forward to your feedback. I’ve tried other products as well, but not aneros yet. Some with larger size (njoy 2.0 and bvibe xl). Any guidance?

Experience after sex with wife

So I just got the helix last week and I am completely new to this prostate massage business. I had a couple decent sessions this week, the second one I think I might have reached prostate orgasm, although I’m not sure if I can distinguish it correctly (it felt really damn good). Anyway tonight I told my wife about this and then we had sex while I had the Aneros in my ass. Once I knew she was satisfied I let myself cum and had a fantastic regular orgasm which absolutely drained me! My wife went to the shower as I just relaxed on the bed, so I thought I would do some Kegels for the sport of it, not expecting anything. Within a minute or two I was already trembling. By the time my wife got back from her shower I was going wild and I told her to get over and hold me tight! She didn’t know what the hell was happening but we shared the experience. I was feeling this full body tingling sensation for probably ten minutes or more and it was incredible. Can anyone tell me if this is the actual Super-O I keep hearing about or am I getting close or what stage am I at? Anyway, for those of you learning this like I am, maybe this is helpful.

Thanks for listening, I don’t know who else to tell!