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After two years I got there but I’m having trouble getting back

It definitely felt better than I thought it was possible to feel. I had many (dry) orgasms, even one that lasted about 20 minutes. At its best it was so good I could barely think. If it were too much better I’d worry about it becoming seriously addictive and ruining my life.

The only advice I’d add to what’s out there is that the “do nothing” strategy works pretty well overall and is the best way to start. Once you get close, the “try not to orgasm” strategy makes it more and more intense the longer you can hold it off.

TL;DR: 30/10, was mindblowing.

Anyway, that was a week ago and I can’t seem to get back there. I took adderall the time it worked but I’ve tried taking it again and it doesn’t seem to be enough. Maybe it helps, but I’d like to be able to do it without of course. It’s pretty frustrating because I know the more I want it the harder it is to get it. Hopefully I’ll get the knack of it and learn how to do it reliably.

due to spiritual risks I may have to stop

I may have to stop my practice of anerosing because I cant decide if what im having is an orgasm or my kundalini stirring. Who knows it may rise anyway but I dont want to poke at it no more. I have found a few of us have had it raise because of this and I dont want to be a victim of it or do my best not to be hoping its not too late.

Yes I know what I have experienced does feel good but im not sure im willing to take the risks involved with it. Its sad because everything I have found so far has its risks and I have not found the glory in doing it just the negative side effects.

I dont really have any questions I guess its more of a rant.

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Helix syn update, no progress and questions

Hey everyone, I don’t want to post everything again you can easily see my other posts through this account. Unfortunately my experience always devolves into me getting lazy, masturbating and I do then feel a bit of prostate “bumping?” I’m starting to believe the syn is not big enough, I have read the same for a few bigger people online. I’m kind of curious to have one of my trans friends give me anal (she is 6′ hard) since she is willing to help me with this.

Think I had p-waves last night, I can feel this thing really starting to work.

So last night, I went for my aneros for the first time in a few weeks. Did the prep, primed myself with my pure wand for 15 minutes or so, and popped in the helix. I started out just reading some lewd stories, my trigger of choice during play, but I guess I was super duper tired, because I dozed off for maybe 20 minutes. Woke back up, realized it was still in and I wasn’t ready to give up. So I got back into reading, not really totally into whatever the stories were about, just doing it to stay awake. At some point, I started to feel something really strange. It was this intangible feeling in the base of my hips, and all of a sudden, my whole body was flooded with this feeling I’m not going to be able to describe. It wasn’t necessarily sexual, but it felt really really good, like a body high. I wasn’t smiling, I was just totally incapacitated. I didn’t feel like the toy was moving at all, but maybe it was and I just couldn’t focus because of the bodily sensations. I wasn’t sure what to do, but when I’ve had involuntary reactions to the aneros in the past, I tried too hard to keep myself in the mood, like reading faster and faster, as if I’ve got to get to the big climax before the feeling fades. So I just set my laptop to the side and closed my eyes, and tried focusing on other things that turn me on. The feeling stayed for maybe three minutes, before gradually fading away. I was both incredibly happy and devastated. I knew I’d made progress but I was so bummed to have lost it. Read more »

After 2 years of trying i had my first hands free orgasm.

Just sort of gushing here, im really happy about this, so im commemorating it with a post.

I got into prostate play 2 years ago when my gf bought me an aneros (helix syn). Ive used a lot of toys since then, but yesterday i had a session with my aneros first, then the lelo hugo, turned it up and within about half an hour i had one. Never been able to have one with a single toy, but the aneros followed by the vibrations of the lelo made for a really good winning combo.

Happy to answer any questions if anyone has them.

[Help] Need help, I have a session today and I think i had it

I play with my Aneros today and I try some technique i read on internet, at first I feel very nice pleasure from my pelvis, after like 10-15mins, my hands are getting numb/tingling, and i just keep going until my stomach havr the same feeling ,and then my chest, my arm, my leg, basically my entire body are geting numb, buzzing/tingling, Its keep going about 2-3mins

is this some kind of mini-o?

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Continuous contraction got me to orgasm rather than rhythmic contraction

The typical beginner method that people seem to follow is rhythmic contractions. However, I found I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions. I wasn’t getting *any* pleasurable sensations from the massager and I couldn’t tell whether the massager was even contacting my prostate.

I did some reading and I discovered that the intent of the rhythmic contractions is to tire out the anal muscles so that they naturally spasm. The muscle spasms then result in a positive feedback loop for stimulation, hopefully leading to orgasm.

Since I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions, I decided to employ continuous contraction instead. I kept a continuous contraction going for about five minutes, at which point my muscles tired out and started spasming. I then quickly found myself having a full body orgasm!

I think continuous contraction works for me because there’s significantly less to focus on and it’s easier to control, so I can completely relax. With rhythmic contraction, I found that I had to focus on the contractions in order to control them, preventing me from actually relaxing.

So if you’re having trouble with rhythmic contractions, maybe give continuous contraction a shot instead? I’d say it’s worth a shot if you haven’t been making progress otherwise.