“Which Comes First: The Arousal Or The Erection?”

Introduction
I have noticed lately that when I am wearing a “chastity cup” to bed at night, there is a certain period of time that I can experience and feel just prior to an erection. This is almost always un-stoppable. It is automatic and within a very short time, I feel my cock awakening and coming to life! I can feel it growing and throbbing into the cup. And voila’, I have my erection! At the same time, I feel a sudden surge of horniness. Is this normal? Let me explore it futher…

Analysis
The sexual response cycle in males and females follows a known, defined sequence: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Resolution. But there are no clear-cut “lines” or demarcations between each phase. Most of what I experience occurs during the Excitement and Plateau stages. Since I usually practice semen retention (SR), the Orgasm and Resolution stages are rather infrequent now. Thus, the Excitement and Plateau stages remain. And the Plateau stage (for me) has to be limited, since if I remain in the Plateau stage for too long, I will develop and experience the dreaded “blue-balls”. So my personal “arousal” now consists primarily of the Excitement stage.

Arousal
Most of the time now, my arousal occurs during the night when the nocturnal erections occur on a regular basis. As I said in the beginning, sometimes I can feel when this occurs. Other times, I am awakened by the erection. Either way, when the erection occurs, it usually lasts a while. Read more »

Rewiring A New Mindset and a Great Sex Position

I mentioned in an earlier post that the impact of rewiring on me has been too much to contain in one post. So I will insert posts every now and then that illuminate the magic that has occurred in my mind and body that is rewiring. Here is one of those posts.

As I mentioned in an earlier post sex for me was a penis focused activity until Aneros. With this penis focused orientation comes the physical – gender based imperative to be proactive when I fucked. It goes to reason that men have cocks, an organ designed to penetrate and women have cunts an organ designed to receive a cock. That imperative calls on a man to be the assertive protagonist in sex; women get fucked, men do the fucking. It is thrusting and probing and grinding and digital massage of clits and a lot more.

As a man I was programmed by this imperative to penetrate my wife with my cock and thrust in her cunt creating pleasurable feelings in my cock until those feelings reached a crescendo that caused me to ejaculate. That was sex for me. For her it involved a lot of oral enhancement to her clit before penetration to warm her up for orgasm. Like many women she has a longer fuse than I do. Read more »

Long time, great session

Had not had a session on over a week. New job, holidays, no alone time just kind of drained the energy out of me. So tired and busy prostate didn’t even begin to whisper for attention.

Had some time to myself today and got out the Progasm. Took about thirty minutes for things to start getting good. but took off from there. After a little over seventy-five minutes things began to slow down. Decided it was time to stop.

Took a nap for what turned out to be forty-five minutes. Feeling recharged and having a little more alone time I got the Progasm out again. Popped it in and in about thirty seconds, WHAM! Got real good real fast and heavy for twenty minutes until the phone rang. My alone time was coming to an end. Tomorrow is another day!

Amazing how sensations change. O’s today felt different from previous sessions. They also just built on their own and exploded without me trying to hold them back to build intensity. Just letting them happen made them better.

I wonder what’s next?

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New here

I just found the sub today and after reading a lot I need to join this club! What Aneros toy would be the best one to start with (I am not new to anal play but it has been awhile) ?

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Test-Driving the Progasm

I asked for advice about a larger Aneros. Varmint1234 explained differences between Progasm and Maximus, and I went with the former.

I bought a new Progasm and took it for a spin last night. The sensation of fullness and being stretched was amazing. It’s a little big for me yet, but the sensations against my prostate were amazing. I can keep quiet with my Helix, but it had me moaning when it started tapping my prostate. I started out doggy, with my ass in the air. My prostate got swollen from arousal and soon I could feel it pegging my gland. My dick started leaking and my nipples got hard and puffy. I notice since I started playing with my prostate, they’re hard and swollen most of the day.

I was watching porn and just paying attention to the sensations in my pelvis and perineum. Suddenly, I felt the ridged band of my foreskin becoming erect. The foreskin undergoes its own arousal and erection. I couldn’t keep my fingers out of the ridge on the top side of my cock (side closest my abs) and ended up stroking this. I find I can have multiple wet orgasms when I ignore the cockhead and focus on the ridged band and frenulum. I started stroking there and the Aneros started tapping my prostate because of my muscle spasms. Read more »

Wearing the Maximus

Friday afternoon I had the house to myself with a couple of honey do items my wife had left me and dinner plans that required me to leave my in about 3 hours. On top of this my prostate was begging for a session. I didn’t want to rush a session as those are generally more of a waste of time. I decided that I should go ahead and try make the best of the time I had. I figured I would try something new. My plan was this, assemble the shelving units in my living room, wearing my Andrew Christian Jock Strap,the aneros and a t shirt. To ensure I stayed aroused mentally I put on some girl on girl porn on the tv. I went ahead, prelubed and slid in the Maximus. The fullness felt great and my prostate could tell it was there without any kegals. I went ahead and put the jock on and tucked my man parts into the pouch. Anytime I use this jock in a session it is always better. Probably because the pouch in the jock lifts and supports everything while creating some added sexual tension. Going about my work I was kneeling most of the time facing the tv. As I assembled the shelving units I could not help but notice how great and distracting my prostate was becoming. I had me session afterwards and it was really one for the books.

SR how long is too long?

I recently ended an almost 5 week run without ejaculating. The initial urge eventually subsided and I was carried the rest of the way by some wonderfully high level constant arousal. During that time I passed another milestone, quite unintentionally I achieved a Super O by tickling my upper palate with my tongue, some Kegels and nipple play. But eventually I found the constant arousal exhausting, always high and horny takes its toll! Don’t think I will have an extended run as long as that again though, for me I feel that maybe 7 to 11 days is optimum.

“Going For Broke”

Summary
Well, I made it to Day 8 of SR. No sign of blue-balls yet. I slept in my SD “chastity cup” overnight and experienced several stimulating erections, feeling close to the PONR. This morning, I had an urge and every intention to end this “run” by putting-on a condom, my Duke swimmer’s jock and then lie-down and listen to a nice MB assist binaural track on YT. I would be sure to ejaculate with this erotic mix. I put-on the jockstrap but nixed the other ingredients. Yes, I could experience a great EJ, but there is a satisfaction in the mysterious absence of orgasm at this time. Going through the day knowing that it has been 8 days since I last ejaculated builds-up the anticipation to a greater level. Barring the blue-balls, I should make it!

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PS I thought about a short session with the HIH 950 this morning, but in my current “condition” I felt that would be too tempting for a Super-T! I’ll hold-off on that session for now.

PS In general, IMHO, any SR days in excess of 7 can yield wonderful, delicious results. Somehow, the mind is aware that an ejaculation can be imminent, and I will be constantly “reminded” throughout the coming days. That means more spontaneous erections, leakage, Aless prostate pulses and horniness. Oh yeah!….

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5 Years In

As I entered my fifth year of Aneros use, I was a totally rewired man. My cock focused sexuality was now whole body focused. Anal – non ejaculatory orgasms became my primary source of sexual pleasure. Given a choice I preferred anal induced MMO to ejaculation. I have always loved cunnilingus, but now making oral love to my wife became a fixation. I was addicted to pleasuring her with my mouth. I developed a craving for the taste of her grool. A prolonged session of foreplay and having her participate in my Aneros insertion juiced her vagina and made the sap of her passion run from her pussy mouth.

Rewiring also amplified my exhibitionistic tendencies and my sense of sexual adventure. In daily life I loved showing my package off; wearing clingy pants and a “banana hammock” displayed the bulge in my pants unashamedly. I loved seeing girls looking at it. It needs to be noted that I am a hard person not to notice. I am 6 foot 6 inches tall and a lean muscular 220 lbs. I have a shaved head and a thick mustache. My 8.5 inch penis in a pouch that thrusts it out is hard to miss on me. Read more »

Eupho Trident…I think I love you…

@SOwithoutAneros…I just dont know what to say about this “noisy cricket”.
There are simply no words to describe what I just experienced.

Ever since last night I’ve been kind of buzzing. Even though last night’s session was rather pleasing…the level of intensity and unrelenting ecstasy wasnt always there. The Eupho Trident brought acute resolution to that tonight.

My Supple Nips arrived yesterday therefore today I decided to start my nipple training. I watched a youtube video to gather what I needed…put a dab of vaseline on both of my nips and boom. Had a nice 20 minute training session. While I was doing that I was just laying down enjoying some aless. It wasnt too long before I was rock hard and getting nice pwaves. The Alexa alarm went off signifying 20 mins was done. I looked at the clock….633pm EST. The wife is set to get off of work at 7pm. Would it be a waste to go into an Aneros session for 30 mins?

Oh hell it wasnt.

I went to my drawer…pulled out the Eupho Trident…lubed it up and stuck it in. Turned off the lights and shoved a pillow under my buttocks. Almost immediately this thing began to dance and then slowly autofuck me. I was shirtless with just some shorts on and I was in pure heaven. Read more »