What was that??

I think after 8 months I’ve finally gotten a glimpse of what a prostate orgasm should feel like! After reading several posts I gave the “do nothing” approach, took a rips off my hash oil pen, threw on some porn and I was off to the races.

My penis felt like it was twitching the entire time, but not like any of the times before. The build up was definitely slow (had to go through several videos haha) but once it hit the spot it was unreal. Usually when I’m watching porn, I focus in on a particular area but this time I let my mind wander and it was finding the most simple things incredibly erotic!

Never before have I had such trembled breathing and chattering teeth. I was fighting all the urge not to tense up but the more I did either way the higher it took me. I don’t think I actually climaxed but what a wild ride that was!

Just so I didn’t feel like the session was wasted, I tugged it out and took less than a few minutes and it felt amazing releasing!

My question for you guys, how long do you wait between sessions? I have a good window tomorrow and I feel like I wanna give it another go. Is that too soon?

A “Chastity Cup” Takes It All Away!

Just chilling early this morning, wearing my XO cup. While relaxing on my sofa, I began to dwell on the possibility of me having any kind of sex while wearing it. And what did I discover? That there is nothing left! Every possibility I could imagine for anything “sexual” was effectively stopped by the cup!

Examples:
Any kind of masturbation or edging……no!
Cuddling or petting with my wife…no way!
Making out in unusual places…stop it!
Getting turned-on by seeing my erection….get out of here!

Get the idea? So where that leave me? Listening to “old disco” classics while performing kegels! Fortunately, the prostate still has the capacity to orgasm without any penile involvement!

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Conclusion
This is why semen retention and prostate massage go hand-in-hand! Feeling the “inner burn” without the usual male “tools” seems to intensify the possibility of prostate orgasms, with or without an Aneros massager. “Necessity is the mother of invention?” Put that in your pipe and smoke it! Touche’.

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“Pleasure Through Abstinence (Sexual Satisfaction Without Sex)”

Introduction
I had a groin irritation which resulted in me not wearing my “chastity cups” for about 5 days. At the same time, I self-imposed an “abstinence” period from my Aneros prostate massages. This combination proved to be quite formidable for my pelvic pleasure. Let me explain…..

Pre-Session
While awake early this morning, I had the urge and “prompting” from my Japanese urologist* that I must wear a groin cup for a period of time to arouse my prostate. I selected my Mueller FlexShield and put it on. Wow! That feeling had been absent for more than a few days and I could not believe the stimulation that I felt! At the time, I did not suspect that an Aneros session was coming, so I just went about my early-morning business as usual, which included breakfast, etc., all while wearing the cup.

Session
When my morning “chores” were completed, I had another “prompt” from my Japanese urologist who insisted that I perform a 15-minute “milking” session with my HIH 950 prostate massager to help alleviate my BPH symptoms. I dutifully lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. No sooner did I start to relax that I could not keep the massager “still” within my rectum—-it began to move and quiver entirely on its own! At the same time I began to feel an intense pressure on my prostate and I honestly felt that I was “this-close” to a hands-free wet orgasm! It was that intense, that mesmerizing. I could only lie-there and try to absorb all that I was feeling. After 15 minutes, I felt that I should end this “milking session”. When I took a look inside the cup, I was amazed to see a pool of very clear, non-sticky fluid that had collected at the tip of my penis. I felt much better and knew that, while only in Day 5 of SR, I needed this prostate milking! If it makes any sense, I now feel sexually satisfied without sex! Plus, I don’t have (yippee!) a refractory period! Read more »

Releasing a bit of tension

So I had therapy today to talk about some of the stuff with my mom, so I was pretty chill when I got home. After therapy I went to a Starbucks and read a chapter of 12 rules for life about raising your children. It didn’t quite hit on the “don’t be an absolute monster to your kids” that I thought it would, but I also practiced laying out some of my feelings about my mom in the framework of crucial conversations. I had gotten a Facebook message from my mom asking “if I got her texts”, but since I had blocked her on my phone and unfriended her on Facebook, this message came as a surprise to me. I got home and meditated a bit after lighting a scented candle (which smells like boy’s deodorant :)). I was reminiscing about my adolescence. In practice, I tried imagining how it felt to have my whole being be in some pleasant adolescent memories (which I realized were rooted in the pleasantry of being away from my bitchy mother). I also wrote down some potentially “Freudian Nightmare” phrases relating to my mom and Aneros usage. I tried channeling my inner, vulnerable childhood voice and got emotional as I articulated:

* “Mommy why did you get mad at me for using sex toys to make myself feel good?”
* “Mommy, why don’t you love me when I make myself feel all nice and good inside?” Read more »

Underwear unveiled (my take)

Hi guys,

Again it has been many days since I have submitted an entry to my Aneros blog. I did have an Aneros session in nine days until this morning on Columbus Day. I was distracted by various things, mostly the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation saga played out. Like many Americans I came away that contest bruised and exhausted.

Fortunately late last night my horniness came alive after reading some porn and viewing sexually suggestive pics on tumblr. My cock wanted to come out and play. I wanted to indulge him in a bate session, but I was too tired. So I donned one of my All-Star Shock Jock Cup w/supporter combos and went back to bed, and slept like a baby.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s blog entries very much because he tells it like it is especially when he talks about jocks and cups and the Aneros. He did so well in his latest blog entry “Underwear, unveiled.”

As for myself, I think my dad was a real cool guy in 1950’s America for being an exhibitionist at least at home. He was a Little League umpire in my hometown during the summer months. On game nights, after supper he would dash about the house buck naked with his cock flopping about on the way to my parents bedroom where he would don his navy blue umpire uniform. As I was entering puberty, I discovered he wore a jockstrap underneath. His Johnson & Johnson men’s large jockstrap had a huge pouch. His dick was a much larger version of mine. We we’re both circumcised and we both have a bulbous glans. Read more »

Experienced aneros users, where does this lead!?

Experienced aneros users, I have been wondering where to go from where I am and how does the aneros experience evolve with the years.

I am a fairly new user, about 8 months into the aneros experience, but I am fortunate enough to have a very active prostate and I have been able to tap into it to have incredible, body-numbing, scream-inducing SUPER O’s for the past 5 months. My prostate orgasms have certainly evolved: I have discovered new heights of intensity, new sources of pleasure and distinctly separate types of orgasms depending on the stimulation. Also more ease to reach orgasm, and I feel a much more sexual and confident man (hetero). With the right mindset I can also enjoy A-less sessions.

The evolution so far has been incredible, and I have a vague feeling like I have an interminable well of pleasure in my core, multiple unopened doors to still explore but foggy and dim in the near distance somehow.

I don’t want to overthink it but, I guess my question is: ¿will the experience continue to change and evolve over the years? Or is this just a transition phase in pleasure “rewiring”?Thanks!

If any users want any advice I’d be happy to help, although I can’t imagine being able to give better advice than what’s already in the forums.

Progress updates

So I believe that an open blog like this, where I can talk about my progress and stories in an aneros-centric community, will help me with changing my mindset to not judge my sessions as “successful” or “unsuccessful” and to simply be mindful of what occurred.

I had found myself a little over 7 days abstinent going into this weekend. On Friday, I also met a cute new guy who’s going to be coming over on Monday to see me 😀 In our talking, I mentioned that I had been saving up my loads (in my own head for an eventual Aneros session), but he seemed to really like the idea of me being all horny for when we meet up.

Anyway, I was pretty busy Saturday with a concert so Sunday was my me time. I spent the morning running errands on my bike, but once I came back from doing my laundry my interests started getting naughtier. I was looking into buying a latex catsuit (since I’d love to try latex), and realized I was starting to get myself horny. Eventually, after browsing online long enough, I decided to lock myself in my Holy Trainer v2 chastity cage and go run an errand. Once I got back however is when things started to get hot.

I realized that I hold a lot of tension in the muscle that raises and lowers my balls when I put my chastity cage on. I had also discovered in previous aneros sessions that relaxing the tension in this muscle made for a good session, although I struggled putting it into practice. Read more »

“Underwear, Unmasked: A Sexual Fetish Meditation”

Introduction
Yes, a most unusual meditation. But it developed quite naturally. Here are the details…

I awoke early morning with a stiff erection and decided to put-on my Mueller “chastity cup”. I went back to sleep but awoke again, this time near the PONR which felt so good. I really felt close to an ejaculation. That feeling lasted perhaps 15 to 20 minutes. Then the erection subsided and I decided to listen to some soothing, erotic tracks. As I began to listen, I seemed to fall into a most unusual meditation…

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Meditation
As I seem to have a fetish for jockstraps and now, hard cup jocks, it seemed only natural that this would become a topic of meditation. I began to dwell on the concept of jockstraps as underwear. And it dawned on me that, yes, both of these mundane objects are really nothing more than underwear!

A jockstrap is nothing more than a flexible “pouch” of elastic material that is designed to support the male genitals. It resembles male underwear in the way it is designed (give-or-take a few elements) and the way it is worn. But it is in the wearing of it that it becomes an object of sexual stimulation. A lot of guys (myself included) probably can’t help but get an erection while wearing one. And that tight, stimulating “support” only intensifies the feeling. Read more »

An “Active Listening” Aneros Session!

[Disclaimer: My use of “active listening” is not related in any way to Carl Rogers and Richard Farson who coined the term “active listening” in 1957]

Background
I awoke around 4 AM and wanted to listen to some tracks. I also wanted an Aneros session. So what to do? Obviously, combine the two! Let me explain further……

Session
I was wearing my XO cup from early this morning and, in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of a T-boost. Thankfully, my day-long refractory is now a memory! Since I would be lying-down, I opted for my HIH 950 massager which does not have any extended P-tab and nestles-in quite deep. So when I am in a prone position, it would not pose any interference.

So with everything in place, I put-on my headphones and began to listen. I selected one of my favorites:
“Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1 | Mixed By Johnny M”

This session was very good. One thing I noticed right away is that I didn’t have to do any deliberate PC contractions; the musical “beat” did that for me! It almost was automatic! The sensations just continued to build; at one point I began to experience whole-body spasms and I distinctly felt “something” tingle up-my-spine. When I felt that I couldn’t take any more, I ended this session. I was surprised to see that about 30 minutes had passed! Read more »