“Sometimes Sex Just Happens”

Background
No session this morning. But I awoke fairly early and wanted to relax with some meditation tracks. I selected one: “The Timeless Sea 10 hr’s” and began to listen. It was very calming and relaxing. It wasn’t too long before I began a meditation…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on sex. Not in the usual sense, but within the context of all reproduction of wild species. For example, how do insects mate? What about birds? And so on….

And the meditation turned-back on us humans. We certainly reproduce but in our own terms, no? We have “rules and regulations” galore—generally monogamous unions and all kinds of penalties if we are not. We human males then are not “free” in a sexual sense. We are usually committed to one single female for life. Is this the way it is supposed to be? Perhaps, but then the mechanics of sex becomes quite…..boring! There is no variety! Maybe that is why so many men have issues with ED? PE? DE? We rely more on artificial means (pills, etc.) to increase our arousal and our sexual performance. So there is a deeper-rooted psychological basis for the sexual maladies of the human male. Intriguing….

Effect with Aneros
The meditation then shifted to Aneros and our prostate pleasures derived from these simple devices. I read about men in the Forum having issues with arousal, erections and generally a lack of stimulating, orgasmic sessions. I too experience this from time to time. And I began to dwell on their cause. Of course, the usual explanation is that “our expectations are too high!” But I would like to counter that with “just let sex happen!” “Sex” in this context implies anything sexually-arousing such as an Aneros session. Read more »

Pre-session rituals?

So I’ve been working on my technique since my first super-o a few weeks ago, and in preparation for a session tonight I’ve been tensing my prostate on and off all day.

Anyway, this got me thinking about what other people might do ahead of sessions. Obv there’s the obvious/the things in the Wiki (cleaning, relaxing, being aroused etc.) but do others have other rituals or go-to prep activities?

This isn’t a help-me-with-my-technique type of post, it was just something that occurred to me and in curious. And this sub/community has always been welcoming of questions and forthcoming with comments, so figured I’d ask.

Down the road

Seems like the first month was a “Hey! This is fun!”-new thing experience.
Had a lot of weird stuff and amazing sensations which seemed to have trailed off the second month. It still felt nice, and I enjoyed it. But the newness or honeymoon, for lack of a better term, had passed.
However, this week has been interesting. I think my prostate has started to gain more sensitivity.
Before, it was just not really reacting. I’d get a nice twinge or a half second flood of energy, but really not much encouragement otherwise.
Last night I got very close to going over the edge. I was pulling the helix in so hard and deep, and it was feeling so good. I couldn’t stop contracting.
Before, if I did that, it was almost annoying and felt scratchy.

I left off and could really feel it. I had ‘the itch’ and there was much fullness in that area. I was tired and needed sleep, but still excited and horny.
So something has changed where it wants it good and hard up in there.
I started thinking I needed a progasm, but now I think not yet.

Press on

“Not A Great Session, But I’ll Take It!”

Background
I made it to Day 7 of SR. Had a good night’s sleep (sans cup). I awoke about 5 AM with not too strong an erection. I decided on a nice “milking” session with the HIH 950. I donned my Safe-T-Gard cup to assist me with this session.

Session
The HIH 950 is dependable for me in that it is not too invasive, but gives me a definite “nod” in the right direction! During this brief (~15 minute) session I really felt like I was on the path to a HFWO! Of course, I have never experienced one, but it is nice trying. When this session was over, I checked the inside of the cup and (just as expected) really nothing in the way of precum or prostate fluid. But that’s okay with me; sometimes just going through the motions can set-up my prostate for bigger and better things in a future session!

Afterthought
I would not call this a “dud” session at all. It certainly was pleasurable and I could have extended the duration perhaps another 20 minutes or so. But I am not looking for great pleasure in these sessions. Virtually all of them now are for my prostate’s health. And I achieved just that this morning!

Would I ever think about stopping Aneros sessions altogether? Of course not! Just as I need to “massage” my cock periodically for a release, I also need to “massage” my prostate for its release. Perhaps not in exactly the same way, but that activity needs to occur. Anyway, it is just too pleasurable to quit! Read more »

Am I two timing my Aneros devices?

Well I couldn’t resist another “flirtation” as per my previous blog. Almost identical results, although not quite as much fluid produced. What I began to think about and what prompted this follow up is that an Aneros session for me tends to follow the same ritual. It will take place at the end of the day as I settle down for the night when the house is quiet. Once settled down with my chosen device I lie and relax and concentrate on the sensations as they come and go. But with these last two experiences I have been distracted whilst busy showering etc, but still the stimulation was building without the need to focus, concentrate or relax. Although the results were not as strong as with my Progasm Jr or Eupho Trident it was still enough to leave me buzzing for hours afterwards. I came out of the shower feeling totally energised and ready for the day, a nice hot shower alone is invigorating in itself as I am sure you will agree, but the added buzz that followed that short time of pleasure was fabulous. Makes me think my prostate is a bit of a slut and doesn’t care who he sleeps with or when.

“Chastity To The Max!”

Background
I decided to sleep in my XO “chastity cup” overnight. This is probably the most comfortable cup I have. I got a good night’s rest; about 3:30 AM I awoke to an incredibly strong erection within the cup! And for the next 40 minutes or so, I struggled with a strong yearning to ejaculate! Honestly, if it weren’t for the cup, I probably would have ejaculated. That PONR feeling was so strong and intense that I doubt I could even resist it. As I squirmed-about in bed, my cock was being slightly stimulated within the cup. But not enough to induce an ejaculation. So, once again, the “chastity cup” saved the day!

Discussion
First and foremost, a “chastity cup” prevents masturbation and ejaculation. After all, the cup (as it it used for chastity) is not there to protect the male genitals from injury, it is there for a completely different purpose. And it performs that function well! With a throbbing, aching erection, an ejaculation would be most welcome! But there is an impediment: a solid barrier to stop any touching and any masturbation on my part. The cup is anatomically-shaped so that it cradles my scrotum, perineum and erect cock. It works very well. I am prohibited from masturbating. It is an intense denial of pleasure.

Conclusion
When the erection subsided, I am still in chastity. But being in Day 6 of SR, my T-level is definitely on the rise! I can feel it! I would like to ejaculate! I feel like I want to ejaculate! My cock is aching for a release! Darn chastity cup gets in the way! Read more »

For Me, “Chastity Cups” Hit All The Right Marks. Here are 10 Reasons Why…..

Background
Wide-awake in bed early this morning, I contemplated a session but did not initiate one. Instead, I began to dwell on what it is about “chastity cups” that is so appealing to me. And my head was suddenly filled with a myriad of reasons. Let me explain some of them…

Reason #1
It feels good!
IMO, nothing feels as good as a “cup” that envelops my manhood. By definition, the cup has to touch, cradle and protect all the vital male sex organs which can be easily damaged through an inadvertent kick (like from a martial arts maneuver) or contact with a sports projectile (like a baseball or hockey puck). That particular area of our anatomy is the epitome of our sexuality.

Reason #2
It massages my prostate.
What I like about wearing a cup is the way that the bottom of the cup is designed to cradle and protect my perineum. It puts gentle pressure on that area and feels great! It gently provides an external stimulation of my prostate. It does this just by wearing it.

Reason #3
I can sleep in it.
Wearing a cup to bed at night at least for me is very natural. It just feels “right”—no pain, no discomfort. There are numerous brands of athletic cups on the market and I have about six of them. Each one has a different “signature” and they feel slightly different when worn. Of course, I don’t wear one every night; that would get boring! But if I am in the mood, the cup becomes a perfect night-time pacifier! Read more »

Aneros Eupho Trident Review

I have been meaning to log on to write this for a while now but haven’t really had time. I have only been getting maybe 1-2 sessions in a week for the last month or so. Really not as much time as I would like. I picked up the eupho trident about a month ago and its been a regular in my rotation. Yes, I have a large collection of Aneros toys, and depending on my mood and what my prostate is craving I will pull from the toy box.
Back to the Eupho Trident. First, compared to the syn version, and above the others in the Trident line, the Eupho is one mobile, comfortable piece pleasure. I have put alot of toys in my butt and this is the most comfortable prostate toy to wear around the house. I actually have it in right now.
The Eupho Trident or ET for short compared to the syn version has similar complaints. The syn version has the annoying handle, useless perineum tab and the worst of all dries out to quickly. Like Prelube is required and still isn’t enough for long sessions. I only use waterbased lube, and really who wants to be in the middle of a set of in-voluntaries and have their lube dry up. The ET moves better, is more comfortable and doesn’t dry out nearly as fast. If you are in the market for a Eupho, but the ET version its worth it.
The ET compared the Eupho Helix. The Eupho Trident moves and dances around the prostate. Lightly touching it sending waves of pleasure. The Eupho Helix, almost rubs, almost milks and contacts firmly. They both provide pleasure and are my go to Prostate toys. I did find the Eupho Trident had more of a learning curve due to its less definite contact. So Newbie, buy the Eupho Helix. Anything after try the Eupho. Like I said earlier the fun is in the Journey.
I will compare the ET to the Eupho Maximus. The Maximus fills, and I mean fills my ass. Its not uncomfortable, but gives a nice full feeling. I reserve this for when I am looking for something way different. The ET will dance and tease the prostate, the Maximus, contacts firmly, and will rub it with every contraction. Both give will give me a super o. I like to use the Maximus then the Eupho. I find it stretches me out a little and gives the Eupho a chance to really move.
I know everyone wants to know what the ET is like in use. In the 10 minutes or so since I inserted it and started contractions. The same amount of time it has taken me to write this. I have a nice erection, and can feel definite leaking of precum. Actually have a wet spot on my naked belly.
With every little contraction, I feel the warmth deep in my belly. I feel the massager lightly brushing my prostate, teasing and moving contacting my prostate in whatever way I feel. I can almost roll it side to side or rock it front to back or do them both at the same time. In a way writing this review fully naked with the prostate massager im writing about sitting in my ass teasing my prostate the entire time was arousing. As the I fight back the in voluntaries to finish my blog, I cant help but think the Eupho Trident is my new favorite.

A flirtation

So, in my previous blog I reported that I was beginning to feel a few stirrings and some arousal. Last evening as I was preparing to shower I found myself become suddenly very turned on and in need of some stimulation. I did consider a session but time was short then my eye fell upon a small glass butt plug that I have seldom used. I decided to try it for an hour or so and see how it felt. While in the shower, after a quick clean and lub it was installed and I set about my ablutions. Fairly soon afterwards I felt something nice and could tell it was in touch with my prostate as I moved around. As I was attempting to shave, a gentle orgasm crept up and had me moaning slightly and I had to hold onto the grab handle. Pre cum was dribbling steadily and I had to rinse myself down. I realised I would not be able to wear the plug around the house as I would not be able to hide any further ensuing orgasms so I removed it. As I was drying myself down my prostate was still tingling and pulsing very pleasantly. Pre cum was still dripping slightly but then I felt a spasm from my anus and prostate and watched as a small stream of clear fluid ran out of my penis. Three or four of these streams appeared, and there seemed to be too much for it to be all pre cum. Afterwards I felt very soothed but still horny at the same time. I know this blog is slightly “off piste” but I thought it worthy of an update to my previous blog. Today my prostate is still giving me some gentle pleasure and I find myself gagging for an session proper.

Paingasm

I had a strange new experience last night that I think is worth sharing.

I have Crohn’s Disease. In my case that means I sometimes get painful abdominal cramps. As you can imagine this has a frequent impact on my sessions. When I get cramps that’s a signal that it’s time to take the Aneros out.

Last night I went for a session. I had some fantastic sensations with many dry orgasms and even a mild super-o. 30 minutes or so in I began to get cramps that normally would spell the end of the session. I was very much enamored in the submissive mindset so I decided to “embrace” the pain in a way, hoping it would pass. They got pretty painful, but I was still having p-waves. I let it continue until I began having a super-o. In my whole pelvic region and my gut I wasn’t sure if it hurt or felt good, blurring the line between pain and pleasure. The rest of my body felt very good as the orgasm was full-bodied. Many waves of shivering orgasmic bliss rolled over my body with intense pain still radiating throughout the lower portions of my abdomen. The pain actually felt really good but bad at the same time. Read more »