“Rediscovering Male Nipple Stim”

I kind of stumbled-onto nipple stim during this session quite by accident. I was finished with my usual musical interlude for this morning. I needed some rest without any headphones on, so I just laid back down on my stomach and started to relax.

For some reason, I began to dwell on my nipples. Now in the past, they never really factored-into my genital play. However, I soon discovered some facts about my own nipples. Now, I realize that not every guy will have the same response as me, but here is what I discovered this morning…..

—It takes time! In the past, if I performed nipple stim for a minute or two, then that was it! It didn’t seem to do that much for me. What a mistake! What I did this morning was about 25 minutes or so. I took my time and boy the feelings continued to build.

—There is a direct link between the nipples and the prostate. Oh my! With continual gentle nipple stim, and combined with some easy kegels, the sexual response can be mind-blowing!

—I discovered with nipple stim, I brought-on an erection! Oh yeah! What a feeling! Read more »

Just got a Vice. Muze bullet cap stuck in the on position. Help?

So overall this is all in all an okay experience. I ordered a Vice sold by Amazon on Amazon and just got it in the mail today. The Muze, the silver vibrating bullet that inserts into the toy, has a malfunctioned cap piece. I was able to cycle only 2 patterns until the button got stuck in the on position and won’t release. I called aneros and they said they sold the Muze separately for $100, and none of its parts individually were sold. I messaged Amazon support and they gave me a full refund on my purchase and said I did not need to send anything back (this blew my mind) but they are currently out of stock so they wouldnt be able to replace it anyways. Regardless, I now have a free Vice with a broken Muze button. Does anyone know how I could fix it?

“A Seduction Fantasy”

Wow! I thought I knew everything about male arousal….NOT! Let me explain.

My wife and I are having fun in bed again and I am only in a new Day 2 of semen retention. But something in my brain seemed to “click” recently and I am getting more aroused with little stimulation. I am even trending towards erections during the day.

This morning about 3AM, I got up and wanted to chill with some erotic music. Which I did after selecting a pair of fairly loose cotton trunks beneath my PJs. Anyway, I got into position, started listening and already felt aroused from last night’s “cuddling” session with my wife. I dd not ejaculate last night but felt that even with my DE, I could have easily come. Read more »

What do you guys do when prepping for a session?

I’ve been at this for a while and have yet to achieve a super O, I think half the reason is because my toys weren’t specifically designed for this, but I’ve finally got around to ordering my first aneros and want my first session with it to, hopefully, be my best yet. The other half of my dilemma may be my lack of preparation for sessions. I’ve tried random techniques here and there but prepared sessions feel no different from impromptu ones.

So preparation, what do you guys do. How early do you start, a day before even? Do you change your diet or eating habits? How early do you lube up and how long do you leave it in before really starting? Not restricted to these examples, what do you do to prep for your sessions?

Rewiring (and perhaps nipples)

So I had just finished an AMAZING session today (writhing, moaning, immense pleasure! Still no super O yet, though!) and I got to thinking: How do you know you’re rewired? Rewiring is mentioned on the Aneros wiki, and its been mentioned here too, so I’m just wondering the threshold here?

And speaking of which: I had heard that guys nipples get hella sensitive when they have been using the aneros for a while. Now, my nipples have NEVER been an androgynous zone for me. My wife has tried rubbing my nipple during foreplay, and it barely registered that she was touching them. Since starting my aneros use, that really hasnt changed…until sorta recently. They arent “sexy” zones yet, but I have noticed that they are more sensitive (a tad). What got me thinking about it, though, is that during a particularly nice p-wave, I actually felt them tingling. Like, totally isolated, separate tingling from the rest of the great feelings centered entirely on my nipples. It was faint, but there.

I tried playing with them a bit then, but it sort of went away. They were sensitive a bit, but nothing feeling “good”. Just feeling. Anyone else feeling this? Or has someone went from “Nipples? Meh.” to “Nipples?? Aww yeah!”? Im wondering if I am slowly “rewiring”, as they say.

Was that something?

Today in the short session I had I felt something different. Well, not a different feeling, but one with a different outcome.

Generally I use my nipples when I’m frustratred and get nothing from sessions, as nipples make my prostate move. Problem is I eventually ejaculate.

Today I had not time nor privacy enough for a proper session so I I tried to try a bit of helix syn. As usual, I felt nothing for half an hour, so I went back to Prograsm Ice, which has a stronger contact with the prostate, and in my current situation (low testosterone, depression drugs etc) that’s my best bet to make my prostate feel something.

I was very limited in time so I went with nipple stimulation to al least feel some pleasure.

Using my nipples eventually make me ejaculate, but before the ejaculation phase I feel some subtle pulsing in my prostate and cock which I think are similar to the ejaculatory reflex. They feel good but when I’m on them I’m generally in the slippery rope of falling in the ponr of ejaculatory orgasm.

So today I felt those isolated subtle movements, but today for 2 pulses I felt them much clearer. I felt my prostate being really touched by the aneros, when generally it’s much harder to tell. So I was surprised by how strong the prostate was being contacted. I didn’t feel any special pleasure, just a clearer feeling of the prostate being “hit”. Read more »

“A Helping Hand: An Erotic Fantasy”

A very interesting fantasy…..I am now in Day 10 of SR and awoke about 1 AM with an erection and an arousal feeling that led me to believe that I would have to end this SR campaign. So I retreat to the sofa where I get in position with my safety towel and begin this edging session. But deep down inside, I didn’t want to end at Day 10. What happened next is unbelievable even to me but I will relate it as it happened…

I am in the company of a young woman (perhaps we met at a bar?) and conversation seemed to drift toward my SR. Believe it or not, she understood EXACTLY what I was going through at this time! And she “offered” to help! Now, when she offered a “hand” I thought that is would be just a stimulating, orgasmic hand-job. But that is not what she did. Let me explain…..

She suggested that I relax and put-on some headphones, lay down and she would take-care of the rest. She found a suitable couple of tracks (on YouTube: I discovered later that they were “Buddha Bar 2013” and “Buddha Bar 2015”). She laid-down next to me and reached under my silky red boxers and re-positioned my safety towel just around my extremely erect cock. What she did next kind-of blew me away! She grabbed my cock, completely encircling it, including the towel, and began to squeeze. Ohhhhh!! She is putting pressure directly on the frenulum, and I feel a tingly sensation right down to my groin. She tells me just to completely relax; she told me that if I feel the semen rising up to the tip of the penis, that’s okay. If I feel an ejaculation coming, that’s okay also. She just wanted me to relax and let the feelings pass. Read more »

“A Very Relaxing Surfing Session”

Since I am still practicing semen retention (SR) and am currently in Day 9, I felt no pressure to ejaculate this morning. I discovered a new music track on YouTube: “DJ Fotis L – Music for Sex (Round 5)” which just came out a few days ago. I started to listen using my earbuds instead of headphones–they are comfortable and I can move around on the pillows freely.

During this session, I poked and prodded my erect and swollen members, being careful to stay away from the frenulum. But mostly, I just relaxed and listened and basked in a wonderfully, erotically-charged feeling that comes with semen retention. I am also now in very good standing with my wife and we are beginning a regular night-time routine of cuddling and more. I feel that I can be a little more aggressive in bed and will see how that progresses. I’m not sure if my wife is ready–I’ll know tonight if she’s receptive.

Anyway, the music was so relaxing that I swear I was starting to see colors during some of the sounds. I’m not sure if I was dreaming or awake but it was a neat but fleeting sensation. The one-hour track was over already and I am feeling just great today. I did not feel any urge to ejaculate even in spite of some obvious horniness. What will be the SR “magic number” this time? Time will tell…… Read more »

Any “rewired” guys able to have super-o’s from manual (eg Njoy Wand) use?

I’ve successfully rewired muh self with the aneros toys and I am basically guaranteed a super-o with each session. Which is rad.

As I am always excited to get something new, I’m interested in the Njoy Pure Wand. I have something shaped like the Njoy Fun Wand and it’s…fun, but manual stimulation is so different than the ‘do nothing’ aneros approach that I don’t know how to cross over.

Has anyone been able to do this successfully? Any tips?