It's been quite some time since I entered anything into my blog. I've been on my aneros journey for over 6 years now; and, I've recently retired – some 4 weeks ago. I haven't found a new rhythm in my daily schedule yet. A couple of health issues have arisen in the past 3 weeks, with eye surgery scheduled for next week. I find myself with time on my hands and wanting more than ever to share with like-minded men — who thus far have been very elusive. As the days slip by, I am constantly reminded that the "Golden Years" are here for better or worse. I have come to the conclusion that I'd better use whatever means of arousal I can get while I can still get aroused – not clear sailing though for a straight but curious Christian guy.
Made some progress! :D
So after several boring sessions, I'm glad to say I've made some progress. During my last session, after 50 minutes I finally feel what it's called P-wave, I assume. My whole body was in spasm mode and the spasm starts from my thighs, and then it flow to the butt cheeks, and then around to my pubic area. I always thought the feeling of P-wave is something like a continuous prolonged orgasm (similar to the female orgasm) but apparently it's not! The spasms feel good, satisfying and subtle.
One question though, since it took my 50 minutes to get to that state, how long can I enjoy the body spams? In the manual it says between 60 – 90 minutes for each sessions for beginners but I already wasted 2/3 of the time relaxing. I just don't want to push myself too much and risk injuring my prostate.
EDIT: I enjoyed the body spasms for around 15 minutes only. I'm just too afraid to continue.
Will I Get Bored of Sex?
I just bought an Aneros Syn today and it's coming in the mail. I've done some prostate play but nothing too much. Just a finger here and there when I masturbate.
I'm wondering if I'll lose interest in sex after having used the Aneros?
The Sexual Ecstasy of an INFJ
A number of years ago I took a Myers Briggs personality test. The other day as I was cleaning out old files and papers in my desk, I came across a folder with my resumes, it contained the results of that test. It was a very interesting read; I had not read it in a long time. Beyond the fascinating insights it gave me in its explanation of decisions that I have made in my career after I took it, it was particularly intriguing when I considered it in the context of my sexual journey. I had taken the test in my late 30’s before I began on this path of erotic discovery.
The first thing I did before I read it and prejudiced myself about its results was get on line and take it again. I scored it after carefully answering all the questions; I was pleasantly reassured that nothing had changed in 30 years, I was still an INFJ.
The interpretation of each MB type was explained in a set of profiles that accompanied the test on line. For an INFJ like me the summary profile said that I sought meaning in relationships, ideas, and events. Relative to the last several years of my sexual journey I had indeed done that; I had joined some sex forums but left them because they were shallow and a lot of the talk on them was inane. However, every forum that I was on I met people who became close personal friends in my real life off the forum establishing meaningful relationships with them.
I just had a Super O!
After about a week from getting my aneros, I've finally experienced it. I was focusing on the feeling of my muscles gripping and moving the thing around until I reached the point of no return. I found the first orgasm somewhat lackluster but then another one hit me and another until I was moaning and grunting and howling. I started humping the air and my cock felt so sensitive to everything. This went on for about 40 minutes or so. I was soaked in precum by the end of my session.
Honestly, though, what really threw over the edge was letting go and being relaxed. I just went with every feeling. I'm dead silent usually but that feeling will reduce you to an animal and I love it. Worth every penny.
(P.S. Is it normal to still feel tremors after you've finished?)
Right path? Wet orgasm, no touch
So, 2nd time cumming wet without touching the cock… Am I on the right path? It seems to me as part of the rewiring process to cum without an erection or touching, albeit not dry, must be a good sign? Could have probably gone again but time was an issue.
Any thoughts?
The perfect Aneros for beginner?
Hey,
Ive owned a aneros knock-off (Nexus Excel) and got really great P-waves from it after a few uses. Now i wanted to go the official route and bought a aneros progasm. I dont have any problems with insert it, but i wont get any involuntarys (i got them with the Nexus). Now ive read that it could be because the progasm is to big for me (so it doesnt move much). Now i want to try out. Now my question is: What is the perfect and most famous aneros model for a beginner. When i´m advanced i can use the progasm, but i think i´m not ready yet.
Progasm for beginner
Hi, I'm new to aneros toys, though not to anal play, I'm thinking about getting a progasm, but wondered if it would be a good place for a beginner, thoughts?
Can this cause persistent genital arousal?
Sleeping with Aneros in
So how do people manage to sleep with it in and get in the mood on waking?
I tried this last night and woke up around 4am, I decided to remove it and it had dehydrated completely (water based lube).
So do you remove it and apply more lube ready to go or do you wake up and go at it dry knowing it's in place?
Or is it only possible to sleep with it when using an oil based lube to prevent it being absorbed?
(I use coconut oil sometimes and find it still gets absorbed)