Tag: Aneros

Aless and My Sexual Thermocouple

Thermocouple: a device for measuring temperature, consisting of a length of wire of different metals connected at two points terminating in a bulbous tip, the voltage being developed in the junction will be in proportion to the temperature difference.

By Spring of 2007 my Aneros journey made me feel like a 17th Century Explorer from Spain or Italy of Portugal only instead of the New World I was seeking the New Orgasm. I was in control of my ship, its equipment and the humanity that drove it and most importantly I had confidence in myself. I alsowas aware I was headed somewhere but I wasn’t totally sure what was out there.

I was having a 90% success rate with Super O’s each session. I knew how to make sure I had them but I wasn’t always consistent in the results. Some sessions were deep and intense producing toe curling agonizing ecstasy while other were just meager and ok. Each one was as different as a finger print. I learned that Super O’s were very nuanced and that depending on how you guided them, they could tumble you like a wave on the shore and abandon you or they could caress your brain and transport you to nirvana. I learned that I could get good advice from others on what worked for them but that experimentation of what worked in my own body was essential, even if it went against what others did. I also learned from Senior members here about A Lesses. Read more »

The “Why” of Male “Chastity Cups” —– Explained.

Introduction
I slept overnight in my XO “chastity cup”. It is probably the most comfortable cup I own. Early this morning, while lying in bed, I thought about the reasons why I like to wear these cups so much. And here is what I discovered…The answers came to me in rapid succession: Who? What? When? How? And finally…..Why?

It is the “Why” which distinguishes my use from all the others. Let me explain…….

Who?
Of course, male athletes wear cups to protect their groins from injury. If you watch a sporting event, perhaps baseball, you will notice a distinct “bulge” in the guy’s groin. It is quite obvious. That is the outline of the cup. Depending on the brand, it can be quite pronounced.

I wear a cup too for protection…..protection from masturbation and ejaculation! It is the same vital organs that I too am protecting.

What?
Both male athletes and I wear athletic supporters (jockstraps, if you will) with what is known as a “cup”. There is usually a “fold” of fabric in the pouch that is large enough to receive a groin cup. The jockstrap could be worn without a cup, but it is really designed for one and should be worn that way.

I wear a jockstrap/cup combination both for chastity control as well as an aid in Aneros use, wherein the back of the strap is open for ready access and non-interference for sessions from the leg straps. Read more »

My Wife – Sex Partner, Aneros Aide and Lover

So by Spring of 2006 this Prostate Orgasm thing was exerting obvious impacts on me that were impossible for my wife to ignore. One of the most intriguing to her was the change in my nipples (rewiring at work). They were darker and were almost always erect when I was naked. Just being naked erected not only my nipples but also my cock. I was impossible for my wife to not notice these changes. Beyond those changes were the increase and change in my ejaculations as mentioned in the previous entry. So one beautiful warm spring morning in April, while we were having a lovely chat and coffee on our back porch, she abruptly changed the subject from gardening plans to my prostate. An awkward turn of topic but very welcome none the less. Her inspiration was noticing and commenting on my nipples earlier that morning; I sleep nude so she keeps track of my anatomy easily.

She knew of Aneros and why I did it. I used prostate massage for health as the rationale when I told her about it a year earlier; she didn’t know about the orgasm part. This was the time to open up, so I did. She was quiet and attentive asking very few questions. When I was done she was surprised and a little hurt. Her angst was over the fact that she was not part of it. Read more »

Friends, Nipples and Semen Lend Me Your Cocks

During January and February of 2005 I made 4 trips to the City (NYC); those visits were 3-5 days each for a total of at least 18 days of the 60 total days of both months. Those extended times in the hotel offered seemingly limitless time to investigate my sexual curiosity. Somehow , laying nude and horny in a hotel bed on a cold snowy day seemed so romantic. I discovered early in my sexual discovery journey that one of the keys to enhance the sensuality of my solo sex sessions and my orgasmic response is to romance myself. I would often have candles burning and new age music playing when I was self loving. This became a big part of sessions in hotels and still is.

During those hotel stays there were many nights of lengthy sexting with friends. Most of the chats were with friends from Sex Forums. There was also a very good friend from the Word Press Blog who I was sharing the blow by blow details of my MMO journey; we were both happily married but established what is colloquially known as a bromance. We shared intimate details of our sex lives and our relationships just as many women do. He was (and still is) a physician who was totally into MMO. I still communicate with him on FB in my real life. Read more »

“Just Do What Is Needed”

Background
Now in Day 4 of SR. Woke up about 3 AM with a very stiff erection. I again put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup; it felt so good! I decided to listen to some nice, soothing jazz tracks.

“Listening Session”
While listening, I began to “meditate”. What came to mind first was that professional baseball players generally need to wear a hard cup when they play. No doubt about it—-they need the protection the cup offers them. And the SD Ultra Pro is a great cup! They don’t think twice about it—they do what is needed to play the game!

And one-by-one, I began to dwell on many other things that one must do because it is needed.

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[Note: this may get somewhat graphic, but that is what I remember….]

Most guys (horny or not) need to masturbate and/or have sex periodically to expel semen. Otherwise, they will need a wet dream to accomplish it. The unlucky ones (like me) will also experience ‘blue-balls’ if they wait too long.

Guys who want a baby need to ejaculate into a receptive v****a. Often, more than one ejaculation is needed.

Guys who want to keep their prostates healthy need to internally stimulate it through the anus and rectum. They will need an Aneros prostate massager for this.

Guys who are into male chastity play (like me) need to limit access to their cocks so they can’t masturbate and ejaculate. Read more »

The Beat Goes On

On the trip home from that first successful session my prostate was buzzing; that buzz lasted several hours. The gentle hum deep in my anal canal was juicing my libido big time. I was leaking heavy all the time. The hum in my anus also triggered intermittent erections that caused my cock to drool precum. I felt higher than a kite. I had arrived at MMO. After I arrived home I texted an on line friend in the UK that I had been sharing the details of my efforts with telling her of my success. She was fascinated. I also told my wife about my experience. She was OK with it but was still really worried about my heart and whether it was safe; we still had not had sex yet.

It was another two weeks until I had the chance to travel again, so another succession was not possible until then. It was during that two weeks of sharing the details with my friend in the UK in writing that I discovered my love of erotic writing and sharing descriptions of my anal orgasmic experience and the journey of sexual discovery I was on. So I registered for a Blog on WordPress using the name I was using on Sex Forums and began to give my sexual narrative. I used the forum thread in Sex Forums to drive readers to my WordPress Blog. Sex Forums was also where my On Line UK friend was from; her name there was Princess O. The blog was becoming very successful. At the end of that first month I had 1000 subscribers. I loved the writing. It aroused me more than watching porn. At the end of a year I had 10,000 subscribers. Read more »

Start of new chapter

This is going to be the documentation of a new chapter in my sexuality. How I got here can be found in this thread on the forum.
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/156753-i-got-to-get-me-one-of-these

I got time today to try out my new pleasure tools. I have purchased both the helix & mgx just to have variety. I woke up early (5:30) before she did, was excited for my first attempt. prepped the mgx first as it looked smaller in size even though I have read it really isn’t. I went back to bed and relaxed. After about 10 minutes I no longer felt the “full feeling” in fact I didn’t feel it at but I could feel it moving up/down with each contraction/release. I tried both sides and my back, nothing. I reached down and rubbed my perineum to see if it was the same place as the p-tab location and it was (this solidifies my earlier thoughts that’s what I was stimulating before, the fabled sweet spot) as I started to get the tingle. I decided to just lay there and try the do nothing approach, let my body get used to this foreign object pressing on my prostate. I must have dozed off because I woke about an hour later to this feeling of waves or better description pulses enveloping my body. At first I thought it was my heart pounding causing the pulses but when I focused on my heart beat. I found it wasn’t beating that hard or that fast. These pulses were coming twice as fast as my heart beat and before I knew it they were gone. No tingling or electric feeling, just pulses. I tried light contractions to see if I could bring them back but no luck. It was 8:30 and I had things to do so I cleaned up. Read more »

The First Success 2004

I had been participating in the Aneros Forums for 2 months; the descriptions of Super O and the nirvana like descriptions of the experience whetted my appetite and hardened my penis. After two months of reading stickies and communicating in the forums I ordered my first device. This all transpired during my recuperation from open heart surgery in January of 2004. Aneros Forums helped to occupy the long days of healing; I was physically limited as to what I could do at the time, and sex or any sexual activity was out of the question. So chatting about Aneros and learning about the wonders of MMO was a way to pass the time during this slow – boring time in my life. I also ordered several books on ESO (Extended Sexual Orgasm) and read voraciously. It was all I was able to do. I also brushed up on my Zen Meditation as all that I read talked about mind – body control.

So in March at two months along I made the decision to order an MGX; it was well before I was allowed to use it. I had not spoken to my wife about the sex toy I was ordering. She was still fixated on my healing from the heart surgery. So I ordered an Aneros MGX, hoping that she wouldn’t be home when it arrived. Indeed I was home alone when the UPS guy rang the bell. I was feeling pretty good by that time. I was walking a half mile or so each morning trying to build up my strength so the quick response to get to the door was no big deal. I gave myself kudos for my progress. Read more »

Prograsm Ice = Butt Marauder

So I came in from lunch and as I was returning all my family were leaving to go shopping. Wife was already at work and had already completed her midday home trip.

It was just me…the dog…and my prostate.

I started with some Aless. It was fantastic. 2 Super-Os lasting over 5 mins each. I felt all tingly. I decided to retire to the room and get it on with the Helix Syn. It was ok…some good pleasure. A few pwaves. Several times it was moving on its own but it never really hit that spot. My prostate then spoke to me. It said one word….Progasm.

Now some background here. Me and this unit have never seen eye to eye. It’s a lot to put it in. It never feels comfortable. The only time I ever get pleasure from it is if I decided to masturbate (which before I had super-Os I would ALWAYS do and this would ALWAYS be the model I end my sessions with).

Today was different. I lubed it up and while it was still difficult getting that first bulb in…after that it slid right in to place and it kissed my prostate. That was different. I laid down and just took deep breaths. Shortly thereafter it felt like my rectum expanded to allow more of the big boy in. My cock got super soft…unlike any other time…but I felt it…I felt it starting to tingle…it moved like it was shifting…very very small movements…but they were deliberate and to the point. And then it happened… Read more »