Tag: Aneros

Releasing a bit of tension

So I had therapy today to talk about some of the stuff with my mom, so I was pretty chill when I got home. After therapy I went to a Starbucks and read a chapter of 12 rules for life about raising your children. It didn’t quite hit on the “don’t be an absolute monster to your kids” that I thought it would, but I also practiced laying out some of my feelings about my mom in the framework of crucial conversations. I had gotten a Facebook message from my mom asking “if I got her texts”, but since I had blocked her on my phone and unfriended her on Facebook, this message came as a surprise to me. I got home and meditated a bit after lighting a scented candle (which smells like boy’s deodorant :)). I was reminiscing about my adolescence. In practice, I tried imagining how it felt to have my whole being be in some pleasant adolescent memories (which I realized were rooted in the pleasantry of being away from my bitchy mother). I also wrote down some potentially “Freudian Nightmare” phrases relating to my mom and Aneros usage. I tried channeling my inner, vulnerable childhood voice and got emotional as I articulated:

* “Mommy why did you get mad at me for using sex toys to make myself feel good?”
* “Mommy, why don’t you love me when I make myself feel all nice and good inside?” Read more »

Underwear unveiled (my take)

Hi guys,

Again it has been many days since I have submitted an entry to my Aneros blog. I did have an Aneros session in nine days until this morning on Columbus Day. I was distracted by various things, mostly the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation saga played out. Like many Americans I came away that contest bruised and exhausted.

Fortunately late last night my horniness came alive after reading some porn and viewing sexually suggestive pics on tumblr. My cock wanted to come out and play. I wanted to indulge him in a bate session, but I was too tired. So I donned one of my All-Star Shock Jock Cup w/supporter combos and went back to bed, and slept like a baby.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s blog entries very much because he tells it like it is especially when he talks about jocks and cups and the Aneros. He did so well in his latest blog entry “Underwear, unveiled.”

As for myself, I think my dad was a real cool guy in 1950’s America for being an exhibitionist at least at home. He was a Little League umpire in my hometown during the summer months. On game nights, after supper he would dash about the house buck naked with his cock flopping about on the way to my parents bedroom where he would don his navy blue umpire uniform. As I was entering puberty, I discovered he wore a jockstrap underneath. His Johnson & Johnson men’s large jockstrap had a huge pouch. His dick was a much larger version of mine. We we’re both circumcised and we both have a bulbous glans. Read more »

Experienced aneros users, where does this lead!?

Experienced aneros users, I have been wondering where to go from where I am and how does the aneros experience evolve with the years.

I am a fairly new user, about 8 months into the aneros experience, but I am fortunate enough to have a very active prostate and I have been able to tap into it to have incredible, body-numbing, scream-inducing SUPER O’s for the past 5 months. My prostate orgasms have certainly evolved: I have discovered new heights of intensity, new sources of pleasure and distinctly separate types of orgasms depending on the stimulation. Also more ease to reach orgasm, and I feel a much more sexual and confident man (hetero). With the right mindset I can also enjoy A-less sessions.

The evolution so far has been incredible, and I have a vague feeling like I have an interminable well of pleasure in my core, multiple unopened doors to still explore but foggy and dim in the near distance somehow.

I don’t want to overthink it but, I guess my question is: ¿will the experience continue to change and evolve over the years? Or is this just a transition phase in pleasure “rewiring”?Thanks!

If any users want any advice I’d be happy to help, although I can’t imagine being able to give better advice than what’s already in the forums.

Progress updates

So I believe that an open blog like this, where I can talk about my progress and stories in an aneros-centric community, will help me with changing my mindset to not judge my sessions as “successful” or “unsuccessful” and to simply be mindful of what occurred.

I had found myself a little over 7 days abstinent going into this weekend. On Friday, I also met a cute new guy who’s going to be coming over on Monday to see me 😀 In our talking, I mentioned that I had been saving up my loads (in my own head for an eventual Aneros session), but he seemed to really like the idea of me being all horny for when we meet up.

Anyway, I was pretty busy Saturday with a concert so Sunday was my me time. I spent the morning running errands on my bike, but once I came back from doing my laundry my interests started getting naughtier. I was looking into buying a latex catsuit (since I’d love to try latex), and realized I was starting to get myself horny. Eventually, after browsing online long enough, I decided to lock myself in my Holy Trainer v2 chastity cage and go run an errand. Once I got back however is when things started to get hot.

I realized that I hold a lot of tension in the muscle that raises and lowers my balls when I put my chastity cage on. I had also discovered in previous aneros sessions that relaxing the tension in this muscle made for a good session, although I struggled putting it into practice. Read more »

“Underwear, Unmasked: A Sexual Fetish Meditation”

Introduction
Yes, a most unusual meditation. But it developed quite naturally. Here are the details…

I awoke early morning with a stiff erection and decided to put-on my Mueller “chastity cup”. I went back to sleep but awoke again, this time near the PONR which felt so good. I really felt close to an ejaculation. That feeling lasted perhaps 15 to 20 minutes. Then the erection subsided and I decided to listen to some soothing, erotic tracks. As I began to listen, I seemed to fall into a most unusual meditation…

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Meditation
As I seem to have a fetish for jockstraps and now, hard cup jocks, it seemed only natural that this would become a topic of meditation. I began to dwell on the concept of jockstraps as underwear. And it dawned on me that, yes, both of these mundane objects are really nothing more than underwear!

A jockstrap is nothing more than a flexible “pouch” of elastic material that is designed to support the male genitals. It resembles male underwear in the way it is designed (give-or-take a few elements) and the way it is worn. But it is in the wearing of it that it becomes an object of sexual stimulation. A lot of guys (myself included) probably can’t help but get an erection while wearing one. And that tight, stimulating “support” only intensifies the feeling. Read more »

An “Active Listening” Aneros Session!

[Disclaimer: My use of “active listening” is not related in any way to Carl Rogers and Richard Farson who coined the term “active listening” in 1957]

Background
I awoke around 4 AM and wanted to listen to some tracks. I also wanted an Aneros session. So what to do? Obviously, combine the two! Let me explain further……

Session
I was wearing my XO cup from early this morning and, in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of a T-boost. Thankfully, my day-long refractory is now a memory! Since I would be lying-down, I opted for my HIH 950 massager which does not have any extended P-tab and nestles-in quite deep. So when I am in a prone position, it would not pose any interference.

So with everything in place, I put-on my headphones and began to listen. I selected one of my favorites:
“Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1 | Mixed By Johnny M”

This session was very good. One thing I noticed right away is that I didn’t have to do any deliberate PC contractions; the musical “beat” did that for me! It almost was automatic! The sensations just continued to build; at one point I began to experience whole-body spasms and I distinctly felt “something” tingle up-my-spine. When I felt that I couldn’t take any more, I ended this session. I was surprised to see that about 30 minutes had passed! Read more »

My first Super-O!

Wow. Where to begin? I’m still shaking after coming down from the most amazing orgasm. And now I get what people are on about when they try to differentiate between an orgasm, multiple orgasms and a super orgasm.

I’ve been playing with my prostate for about 9 months, buying many (many) prostate toys, mostly vibrating (wrong!) and mostly big (wrong!). Then, less than a month ago I purchased an Aneros MGX. I knew something was right the first time I used it, little (nice) tingly feelings around my anus and it was ‘bouncing’ on my prostate like it was playing a drum – not hard, just nice.

Reading the posts on here taught me to forget about goals, relax and enjoy the journey. That, for me, was the one of the key things. The other was buying some coconut oil – I’d realised that the lubricant I was using was not right for me, it was too ‘sticky’ and seemed to dry out too fast.

The coconut oil arrived on Wednesday, so after work I showered, got onto the bed, watched some porn and, after I was suitably aroused, I covered the MGX with coconut oil, put a bit of the old lube on my anus and slipped it in. It took a while to bring me to the boil but that night I had (what I now know to be) my first prostate orgasm. I think I said “Holy Fuck” or something like as I laid there in shock. But then, not long afterwards another shook through me, then another, and another… this went on for about 15 mins. I was floating on cloud 9. Read more »

“Oh, That Dreaded Refractory Period!”

Introduction
Of course, I am referring to the “down-time” following a male ejaculation, either through sexual intercourse, edging, or masturbation. This non-sexual time is generally caused by a release of hormones, namely prolactin and oxytocin. There are various ways of coping with the refractory period (available online) and I suppose that some of them will work to shorten that time. But it is an inevitable reality for most of us males. For young guys, that time period is rather short, but for older men like myself, it could stretch-out to a full 20-24 hours!

Feelings
Simply put, I feel like **** during this period of time, which lately for me seems to last an entire day. Getting an erection and a ready-to-ejaculate feeling is the farthest thing from my mind during this time. I wish it could be different—it is amazing how I can go from super-sexed-up to feeling like a wet sponge just from an ejaculation. It is like a roller-coaster: the highs and the lows. My recent edging session proved that reality.

How to Maintain That Sexy ‘Feeling’
For me, it is just a matter of doing things that energize and revitalize me sexually. I usually swim every day; that activity naturally accentuates my maleness and gives me a mental awareness of my sexual apparatus. Some nights, I sleep in a “chastity cup” and that activity is naturally arousing. It helps too when I experience the night-time erections (NPTs). My diet is good and I eat a lot of nuts, which are supposed to help counter-act the refractory period. And best of all, I look forward to my Aneros sessions, which are the best way to revitalize my prostate. They keep me ‘sexed-up’ , leaking precum and ready for another ejaculation! Read more »

Helix classic hurts my taint

So I was really curious about this thing, and decided to give it a try and bought a Helix classic a while back. I tried to use it a few times, but each time at about 10 minutes in the pressure on my taint/grundle/gooch whatever you wanna call it, hurt so much! Like if it was flatter or wider, or made of something squishy, or preferably both, it wouldn’t have hurt so much. But it was like a sharp pressure that became unbearable for me after a while, and I gave up using it.

Fast forward to today, and I want to give it another chance but I know it’s just going to hurt. Should I get the Helix Syn? I know it’s coated in silicone, so it might be better. But I found the part that makes contact with your taint in the classic Helix is really thin, so I’m worried the Helix Syn will hurt also because its a lot of pressure on a very small surface area.

Is there something else I should try instead that won’t give me the same problem, or should the Helix Syn make a big difference (and is the difference worth 100 bucks)? I was looking at the Aneros Vice, the part that contacts the taint looks much wider and I think that would be a lot more comfortable. But I’ve never had an orgasm from my prostate before, and understand that aneros purists may argue that you shouldn’t use something with vibration. Read more »