Tag: Breathing

The Tempo Increases

After four years of Aneros use I was at the top of my game inducing MMO’s . At that point I stopped calling them Super O’s because they went from being “one off” pleasure spasms to chains of deep intense orgasms. I had mastered the ability to manage and expand them through mind – body communication. They were no longer a single orgasm, instead they were cascading multiple non ejaculatory orgasms, hence my new moniker: multiple male orgasms. Not only were they multiples, but my command of them allowed me to savor and relish each MMO session. They became the fodder for my blog at the time and for my erotic writing.

I have used many metaphors for my Aneros experience from that point on. I did then and still do often describe my MMO orgasms as kaleidoscopic in character. As they progress they morph from one breathtaking form to another, revealing elegant pleasure just as a kaleidoscope reveals beautiful colorful shapes that change from one form to another. Like a kaleidoscope each sensation transforms into another and mesmerizing me as it does. Read more »

Some progress

I’ve made little progress since my last blog. I’ve actually felt some pleasure not in my prostate but in my anus. I’ve decided that since I can feel sensations in my anus I would focus on that since I don’t really feel anything in my prostate. Not until I’m very aroused anyway. Here’s how my session went. I began by taking a hot shower, witch is something I’ve found helps me relax, then after I dried of I lied in bed and did some deep breathing. Then I began caressing my thighs. Then I applied some lube to my anus and gently messaged to relax the anal sphincters. At first I didn’t feel anything so I began focusing on my anus near the opening. That made me more aware of of sensations but I still couldn’t feel much pleasure. That’s when I realized that I had to have erotic feelings if I wanted to feel any pleasure. So I began I set about finding a fantasy that would help. But that didn’t work either so I just lied there and focused on the physical sensations. Then I started thinking of the sensations as pleasurable instead of just there and that’s what did it. That’s all it took. I didn’t have an orgasm and the pleasure wasn’t constant it came and went, kinda like waves. But that’s ok because I enjoyed myself. I guess before I wasn’t able to get of some of those nagging thoughts in my head that prevented me from feeling anything. I think I’ve a great leap but there’s still a lot left learn about myself.

The Road to Rewiring

When I look back at the milestone of my rewiring 11 years ago I now realize that it was a bringing together of the jig saw puzzle of events and experiences from the start of my sexual journey of discovery that began in earnest in my early 30’s with the experiences of the first two years of my Aneros practice. Looking back on it the potential was always there and the adoption of Aneros practice was the key that opened the door. In effect I believe that rewiring brought together the male and female sides of my sexual psyche and forged them into bisexuality.

The first step in this evolutionary forging of my sexuality that rewired me was my participation in a workshop on female sexuality and female sexual response when I was in my early 30’s. My eyes were opened to the deeper more visceral experience of orgasmic pleasure that women have as opposed to men. I learned the inextricable link between a woman’ s mind, her vagina, the visceral sensory presence of her lover (his scent, looks, feel etc), her whole body experience of pleasure, the strategic ingredient of how she feels psychologically at that moment and her orgasm. Read more »

“Day 9 and Rolling!”

[Thanks to @darkbond for the inspiration and positive success!]

Introduction
I reached Day 6 of SR and began to think: will I need to ejaculate soon due to blue-balls? I read a post from @darkbond recently giving a “Cool Draw” breathing technique for control of blue balls. I was a little skeptical at first, but decided to give it a try.

Well, three days later I am now at Day 9 with absolutely no hint of blue-balls! I have been performing the “Cool Draw” technique every day and it seems to be keeping the blue-balls at bay! I hope that it will continue to work.

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Here is some additional information I got from Reddit on this subject:

“A Technique for Aiding Unwanted Erections, Blue Balls and Wet Dreams”

“I have mentioned this before, I hope some find this useful.

Upon pressure in testicles (blue balls) or unwanted erections, perform technique right away. For wet dream prevention, perform everyday before bed.

Sit down and sit up straight, spine straight, do not lie down. Suck in your gut as hard as you can while simultaneously breathing out. Suck in abs, exhale, do this forcefully. Let go and inhale, relax abdomen and then repeat, suck in abdomen and exhale forcefully. Hold the hollow position of sucking in the gut and hold the breath exhaled for as long as you can in between cycles. Visualize energy going from below the waist, to up higher in the spine. Read more »

Breathe!

Got a copy of the book “Urban Tantra” this past weekend. Lots of interesting information in it regarding Tantra, chakras,
moving energy. There’s a few chapters on sex techniques and practices, meditations, etc.

The recurring theme in this book though is BREATHE! Breathe DEEP! Breathe OFTEN! Get the oxygen level in your
body WAY up.

I did this tonight and had my best session yet. I had O’s I didn’t think were possible. Body spasming almost out of body O’s.

Started my session as usual and just spent some time noticing how I was breathing. After a while I increased
both my respiration rate and depth. Not to the point it was painful, uncomfortable, or felt like work but enough to really
get some air into my body. OMG!

See and feel that air going right to your prostate and your first chakra. Pull that energy up your body.

If you have not gotten to the big O yet I highly recommend getting a copy of this book. Some of it seems like BS, a LOT of
it will to a lot of people but, give it a try and try for a while before you blow it off.

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Getting close?

Last night was a thrill ride. It had been 2-3 days since I last came and decided that was a good time to have a session. I grabbed my helix syn, porn, hash oil pen and I was off to the races. Usual build up of that buzzing but rather than focusing on it I just let things happen while I tried to relax and focused on my breathing. 30 minutes or so in and I’m starting to notice how hypersensitive everything is to the touch, and breathing starts to feel a little more shallow. By this point too my left hand starts to twitch a bit; my hand was on my left thigh as it was spazzing.

When I climaxed, it felt different than the times I had before. Usually when this happens, I’m fully erect and ejaculate. This time, I was fully (or maybe half) flaccid but came buckets. Also after coming, I felt both exhausted but hornier than I did when I started (ended up jerking 2-3 more times last night before going to bed).

How close am I to the P orgasm? Did I just achieve it? Does anyone else ejaculate without being fully erect?

SR Day 10, 500 Kegels and the Florida Turnpike

So this entire week I have been holding firm to the 500 kegels every morning. On top of that I hit a new SR milestone of day 10. Day 10 seems different. From the moment I woke up from my heavily sexual dream I felt tingling all over. I finished my crossfit workout with a lot of energy left and got in my car and started to do my kegels.

From the very first one I felt an insurmountable wave of pleasure. It was unbelievable. By the time I got to 20 its almost as if my body took over and just started to lightly brush against my prostate. I barely had to do anything. In fact I can feel that my prostate is larger and juicier than normal. I know this because even the lightest of kegels and I can feel it and its pulsing and feels ready to burst.

All this time I am just driving through my normal streets trying to get to the turnpike. Even though I was feeling pleasure I always get to some pleasure state while doing this. Only once I got a Super-O while driving and that was basically in my neighborhood.

Today made twice.

I got to about the 300 mark…and then things kicked into overdrive. I started to feel the familiar tingling and in my attempt to try and make it stop I attacked my prostate from a different angle and I went into full involuntary contractions that intensified. I gripped my wheel and forced my eyes to stay open on the road and I started to moan uncontrollably. Read more »

Another Partnered Session

After the couple of years of proficiency doing mmo’s, I had reached the milestone of rewiring. That achievement altered me in many esoteric ways that I shall discuss in the next post. However, one of the very pragmatic things it did to me was give me control of my pleasure and the confidence to invite my wife to participate. It was this confidence that opened to door for me to tell her about my surreptitious use of her bare derriere in the middle of the night to coax exquisite orgasms into my anus.

It needs to be mentioned that I am much more sexually motivated than she is. Regardless she has always been willing to engage in all sorts of sexual activities with me. In our 20’s it was the power she had getting my penis erect and aroused. She became incredibly adventurous; it was this adventurous spirit that allowed her to go outside the conservative comfort zone of her younger years and led her to perform analingus on me unrequested.

One of the things that stimulates her arousal is seeing me ejaculate. The sight of thick creamy semen erupting from my pulsing cock slit as she holds it in her fist along with the tactile experience of feeling my shaft pump its steamy hot load in her grasp is such a turn on it makes her pussy weep. The feeling of a hot stream of semen rolling over the back of her hand during a handjob only adds to the visual delight. Like most women her experience of sex is predominantly tied to what she is thinking and feeling and who with. Read more »

Super o acheived!

Tried the do nothing aproach after a warm shower, inserted aneros and laid flat on my back. Focused on all the subtle feelings on my prostate and ass. Also the tingling in my soft dick felt amazing. 20 minutes in I had my first orgasm and a flood of clear sticky precum oozed out my soft cock. Continued to focus on the feelings and began to breathe real slow and deep. With each breath I felt it building up, 20 more minutes and another orgasm except now I was squirting urine had to get up and pee. Settled in for another 30 minutes and now the big finish. I felt a flutter in my rectum that was amazing as the aneros helix syn danced around magically on its own. My cock got warm and felt like I was cumming for a minute straight but nothing came out of my soft cock . Finally I felt the pee urge and started again to flow urine it was so much I got up to pee and this seemed to end the super o. I think had I not needed to pee so bad I could have carried this orgasm for a long time. It was still amazing and cannot believe how great my cock felt for so long while it was soft. Like a never ending traditional orgasm but better .

Aless and My Sexual Thermocouple

Thermocouple: a device for measuring temperature, consisting of a length of wire of different metals connected at two points terminating in a bulbous tip, the voltage being developed in the junction will be in proportion to the temperature difference.

By Spring of 2007 my Aneros journey made me feel like a 17th Century Explorer from Spain or Italy of Portugal only instead of the New World I was seeking the New Orgasm. I was in control of my ship, its equipment and the humanity that drove it and most importantly I had confidence in myself. I alsowas aware I was headed somewhere but I wasn’t totally sure what was out there.

I was having a 90% success rate with Super O’s each session. I knew how to make sure I had them but I wasn’t always consistent in the results. Some sessions were deep and intense producing toe curling agonizing ecstasy while other were just meager and ok. Each one was as different as a finger print. I learned that Super O’s were very nuanced and that depending on how you guided them, they could tumble you like a wave on the shore and abandon you or they could caress your brain and transport you to nirvana. I learned that I could get good advice from others on what worked for them but that experimentation of what worked in my own body was essential, even if it went against what others did. I also learned from Senior members here about A Lesses. Read more »